Dodger, much respect to you for a well thought out thread. I almost said "my hats off to you" but i thought that might be taken the wrong way.
Originally Posted by Mr. Rogers
Dodger's post rang true, but no truer than these words. Thanks all!
One thing I love about providers is so far I've gotten really lucky and ended up having sex with them. It's awesome - you hire an escort to just hang out and watch Ironside re-runs and next thing you know, sex! Amazing really - I mean who doesn't like sex, and that whole annoying "I want us to wait until I know you'll get along with my dog" phase is over in like 30 seconds!
When I came into the hobby I had limited partners and experience. The ladies have been patient and
kind in their instruction. I am much more confident now thanks to these ladies.
Originally Posted by diddleman
I like many of them. I am the type that likes to talk a little bit and it always strikes me as strange how open and friendly they are in return.
I can say that I am genuinely fond of most of the ladies I've seen. To be as open and welcoming and supportive as they are... just makes me happy. Oh, and the really good ones do something so hot, so sweet that it makes me smile just thinking of it...
The good ones cheer you on and congratulate you on your orgasm. Its a mini celebration of a moment of "letting go" and letting your guard down with a stranger. It's really very sweet and supportive.
Men are told that they are perverts and dirty (for expressing very normal desires) from a pretty young age.
The best providers let us be ourselves. No apology necessary. In fact, they encourage us to let it all out. So... hell yeah. There are MANY things I like about these ladies. Being with a good provider is liking having your own personal sexual cheerleader.
Their hair
Their eyes
Their legs
Their ass
Their mouth
Their smile
Their laugh
Their humor
Their mind
Their caring about themselves
Their caring about others
Their kink
Their fresh breath
Their shaved coochies
Their giggles
Their sweat
Their dirty talk
Their sad face when I leave
Their happy face when I return
Just a couple things I like.
I'm an old guy and a widower. To someone like me these lovely ladies offer an extremely valuable service. Almost all the ladies I've seen have been very warm and welcoming and make me believe that they are enjoying the encounter just as much as I am. I am very grateful that there are lovely ladies like those we have in DFW providing the wonderful services that I enjoy.
Pros and Cons about providers (from my 2 years of hobbling).
Pros
1. Unlike many popular portrayals of escorts, most of those I've met are nice, easy to talk to and down to earth.
2. Even though I'm in my mid 40s, bald and about 30lbs overweight, there has been no outward evidence of disappointment on the provider's face when she opens the door or negative attitude in session because of it.
Cons
1. Harder to schedule and book than I was expecting
2. You find someone you like and then they leave the hobby
Surprises
1. Younger or hotter does not mean better sex at all
2. Higher rates do not necessarily mean a better session
Similarly to Robert Carradine ' s character in Revenge of the Nerds, performing oral sex on a woman has been something I've fantasized about for most of my life and done very little . So my eternal gratitude goes out to you girls for having such clean, shaved/groomed delicious vaginas that I've gorged on the last two years! We shall daty in Valhalla!!