Porn Star VS Girlfriend

I like to call mine "the dirty girlfriend experience" or "the Dallas experience"....i hate labels..lol!

What exactly is the difference? Sorry I'm new to the net. Originally Posted by valerievoxxx

You really don't want to know Otherwise be prepared to wade through dozens of posts with everyone's opinion of what GFE and PSE are. Everyone has their own definition.

GFE= Girl Friend Experience. It is a date where the provider performs like she were your girlfriend. Kissing, cuddling and foreplay are expected, but everyone has their own idea of what GFE means after that.

PSE= Porn Star Experience. This is a date where allegedly the provider acts like a porn star. This is usually a more raw purely sexual encounter where all the pleasantries are set aside. I suppose the provider has to bring a CD with the cheesey music to play in the background while doing the nasty

Because there are so many variations with in the porn industry-- hard core, soft core, story-based, etc, it is really hard to come up with a set definition. For me, PSE is GFE to the extreme. I expect a PSE date to have most elements of GFE but the action goes further-- Greek, COB, facials, etc.

You'll have to define your terms a bit more. Both are thrown about so much these days that they mean very little, at least to me.

I will say that there are very few actual girlfriends from my past personal life that I would engage professionally, so I guess PSE for me. Originally Posted by Satyrrical

That's true... for some ladies PSE doesn't even include checking out backstage and it means only if I may use acryonyms then cof and/or cim and/or bee bee jay. So *shrugs*

why not have both...all twisted in a sexually explosive session full of gfe & pse...lol????? Originally Posted by DallasRain

would choose gfe if I was forced to choose, as I like the affection, but DallasRain sure has the right idea!!!

Dallas Rain always has the right idea!!!!!! LOL

abdclub

Girlfriend.

A good girlfriend/GFE will do all the "porn" stuff you want anyway.

I just like the term lover. Just covers it all, hobby or civilian.

In my mind, PSE either involves an actual Porn STAR, or a session with a normal provider that includes shooting a video and her making me feel like we were porn stars. It is sort of a narrow niche for me that is pretty standard.

Meanwhile GFE is pretty diverse and varies quite widely because every woman is marvelous in her own way and brings something special to the session where she pretends to be my girlfriend for an hour at a time. I mean sure, folks could debate back and forth about what menu items are or aren't part of a GFE, but my point is a real GFE involves the provider discovering what you like or don't like and then adapting that into her performance as your pretend girlfriend.

If she does a good job, you will be back. If she doesn't, well, you know how in real life boyfriends and girlfriends dump one another?

Oh hell no to the video idea.. LOL