A Little Early

I have been known to be "A lil on the tacky side" from time to time.Thats absolutely true, so what who cares,lol.
And I'll be hanging that good ole'fashioned tinsle you had as a kid from my wobbly bits and maybe yours all this month. After which in JANUARY I will be ringing my birthday bell as loud as I can so I can catch up on all those birthday swats I missed. lol

Some of the ladies know well how much I do care about the ladies local or other wise and those precious lil ones. Since I have traveled extensively myself.
Some of you Gents know it too. Because allot of what I do is done behind the scenes.

I do allot of non-hobby business with in the hobby. It's another way of giving back to the community I have come to love. Some of you have become my extended family in doing so. You know I love you, Holiday or not. If I died tomorrow people would know how I felt about them. I am a expressive person.

I have a few fine folks I remember this time of year, because they go above and beyond the call when I need them during the year and over the years. I can count on them to be there when I need them. With out them life would be tough!

My only intent was to inspire/remind those we may have personally touched to rise to the occasion to make this a Very Happy Holiday for everyone.

Such a post is a TRADITION here.Usually posted before the HO HO HO ads start going up.

It is my opinion and not just my opinion that...
Ms Max of Dallas is a damn fine lady. Just good people like myself. I thought it was a good post so I past it on. Showing the related thread was for sexy fun as it headed in that direction.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays for everyone is my agenda!

Im so tired of ignorant, ugly and loud mouthed people who LIKE to be cruel spewing their poison all over someones innocent and good intentions. WHat a bitch. PERIOD!!!!!!! Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

Since I'm the only one everyone seems to have an issue with in this thread. I don't appreciate the disrespectful foul names you directed at me. They're unwarranted, uncalled for and certainly out of line.

You don't have to like nor accept *my* opinion. But there's no need for you to be so foul & ugly toward me. Nor anyone else for that matter.

Not once did I disrespect any one person in my previous posts nor do I appreciate those who've made it a point to personally attack me for my opinions on the *topic*. Which I stand by 100% & will not back down from.

IF the Dallas OP had post were about bringing holiday cheer into someones life etc. Then yes, I would approach the topic in a different light.
But that's NOT what the topic is about. In fact I didn't read much holiday cheer in the original OP post, quite the opposite. (Not referring to Jessi).

I personally feel that some men in this hobby have enough guilt just for hobbying. Therefore, (In my opinion) they don't need anymore added to it by providers who in a round about way, play a guilt trip on them & use the holidays as means to do so. By telling hobbyist that when they're making Their DECISION on whom THEY want to see. That they need to more or less be wise about SUPPORTING the ladies in their own hometown. HUH??
What about letting the men just go ENJOY whom they want to ENJOY, rather than worry about whom they ought to be supporting??
That's where I disagree a great deal with the Dallas OP, post.




None, the less. You all can agree to disagree. But please stop with the foul names & personal attacks. It would be greatly appreciated.

Have a great day.

IMHO,
While the intent may of been nice from the lady in Dallas. To me, it's tacky. And comes across as telling men whom they should be seeing & supporting rather than who the men truly want to see & enjoy. Men hobby for enjoyment. When & with with whom they so desire.
Last thing they need is to have providers make them feel guilty for seeing someone they desire, who's not local.

Just my opinion and mine alone. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

Wow! The one thing I have yet to be accused of in this hobby, but yes, Wicked MILF....if you feel it is "tacky" to send out a friendly reminder that it's been a slow year and the gents should support the Local ladies, especially the Moms with younger children, then I don't mind being known as one tacky individual. It's all good.

I apologize for so having offended thee with my tacky reminder to the gentlemen and thanks for putting me in my place. No offense was meant to the traveling ladies, and if that fits you, then again, please accept my apology for slathering the tackiness out to others who are like minded.

Happy Holidays to those in San Antonio and remember your local ladies, especially the Moms!

Happy Holidays!

WM is very good at supporting the men she see's. She realizes it been a bad year all around.

My hobby funds have been hurt very bad, to the point i just about dont hobby anymore. The last thing I want to do when seeing a provider is being reminded how poor a year it was and asked for a little more.

In my line of work, I take gifts to my customers! Im sure that there are providers out there that appriciate us and want to thank us for supporting them all year and will make a nice gesture to show it.

Has anyone noticed that WM total get's why men hobby and what we look for? I cant be the only one that gets bothered by the fact that there are some providers that only want for themselves and treat us as ATM's. Men you should applaud her ability to bring focus back on us...we are the customer.

peace

Support your Customers during this Holiday season Especially the Dads.

Geesh...let's take a chill pill for goodness sakes! This isn't a matter of life or death...seriously people! So what if someone wants to post a little reminder.

I think it's a little arrogant of anyone to think that MEN can't make decisions for themselves...they always have and will continue to do so. If a provider wants to support her local sister-providers...as well as herself...it's her right to do so and should be RESPECTED just as anyone else.

Let's think of our blessings...the awesome gents and ladies who have really made a difference in our lives. How fortunate we are...to be able to express our opinions...have differences and still be considerate. Be truly THANKFUL as there are so many unfortunate people out there who have it a whole lot worse.

Let's remember our Troops and their families and those who may not be able to even have a Christmas this Holiday Season!

The holiday season is a-churning in this thread.
I'm getting a few chuckles. But it is nice to have that Holidays Tryst.
(Man, that rhymes nice!)

*Pb thinks this might be a good thread to use that new LIKE thingy*

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Hey everyone....I'm a little taken aback that a simple reminder thread has turned into such a big deaI here and in SA. I'm humbled and have blushed like never before by the Dallas responses, and trust me when I say, that's not something that's easily done. I sorta kinda understand WM's frustration with me and my cause to help the locals and Mom's. It's all good really, even though I was a little perturbed by her vehemence when I first read her response. I know Dallas Gents will welcome her and all the travelers, but I do have a cause and hope she and others can understand I only meant to help out my sisters in our area. If not, I'm happy to tell my story and why I have a passion for what I'm doing and am still kinda in awe that so many others have followed suit. For those who are interested in knowing my reasoning, please contact me anytime.

Likinikki...I have little or no arrogance when it comes to men, but I have learned how a lot of them think and what they desire and for the most part, I actually really do adore most of them. Sometimes I wish I was younger and could still have the knowledge I've acquired over the years, however, I am loving my life now and knowing what I know. I may be no expert, but I'm actually not getting a lot of complaints about how I treat a man. However, I do appreciate your input :-) (PS: luv your avatar...HO T)

Anyway.....Gents, please follow your desires this holiday season. My best to San Antonio! I truly don't want awareness to turn into a bru ha ha for the ladies or the gentlemen they all desire to share time with in SA.

My best to all the ladies and gentlemen in and from SA. Can't wait until I can visit there again, either personally or professionally, and I might even keep my "tacky" to myself, or not....just depends...LOL (sorry MILF...couldn't resist) BOL to all and Happy Holidays! xoxo

Wise words, Max, except for one thing. You wrote vehemence, but I'm imagine that you meant to write "venemous", because that's what these attacks directed at other providers are.

Wise words, Max, except for one thing. You wrote vehemence, but I'm imagine that you meant to write "venemous", because that's what these attacks directed at other providers are. Originally Posted by flinde

I appreciate that, hon, and thanks for the input. I actually received an unsolicited PM lecturing me about how I actually used Your Word "venomous". Basically that makes me antagonistic and slanderous, along with a bunch of gobblety goop about how I'm Way Off Base and how much I offended others without them offending me...yadda yadda yadda. So thanks for that, buddy... LOL Too funny!

I sent a rather scathing PM back, which I'm not sure I'm allowed to share or whether it was read by the sending party. However, seems they thought I should be lectured and advised on what I could or could not feel about certain things, and then also proceeded to advise me no response was necessary once they had finished spewing nonsense at me. Obviously I thought different...LOL

So, I assume my response was read and acceptance of the tracking was denied so I would not know it was read, or they haven't had a chance to get to it just yet. The original sender seems to be able to dish it out, but they sure are having a problem eating what they get put back out for them. The sender was also advised that I considered their PM as harassment and they were asked not to contact me via PM again, in such a manner. Who'd have thought something so petty would come from trying to be thoughtful of others...... I don't get it, but OKay.



Anyway, I sincerely apologize that the intent of the thread was a bit tarnished in the manner it has been, but I hope at least most folks got the actual sentiment and good will that was actually meant for this particular message. While many different charities are absolutely awesome and worthy of your gifts at this time of year, IMO and obviously in others, so are your Local Ladies and Moms.

The Good News...know that many are already jumping on the bandwagon and offering to help out with this. Providers who are doing better than others are also joining the cause and giving more of themselves than they already do and have in the past. We definitely have some wonderful women in our community!! I think that's wonderful news and I for one, am very excited! Accolades are in order for Jessy Stone who was thoughtful enough to bring awareness to the members here in the San Antonio Co-Ed forum....You have a HUGE heart, m'dear and might I add you are one tough cookie and I aspire to be more like you. Hope to meet you someday! xoxo

I know...mushy, right? That's just me! Deal with it, ya'll...LOL

Hi M A X,

You mean to tell me someone sent you a PM from SA concerning your post. That's terrible! Was it a woman or a man?

And come on guys, the SA providers are already the laughing stock on the board and that isn't helping none. Us local ladies have dropped our rates to SW prices and you guys still aren't happy! What gives? The touring ladies do notice through reviews and things how you guys so RESPECT us that a lot of them don't won't to come SA/Texas. It kind of goes like this, if you can't support/treat your local ladies (like most cities do) with respect, they wonder how you guys are going to treat them.

Sincerely,
Wet

Yes, hon....and I'd rather not say and went to great lengths to ensure I didn't, but am sure some here will guess who the perpetrator of said PM is, without me ever having to elaborate on actual content or naming names, but will say this..... Please don't be angry at the gentlemen for this and thanks for your concern. I may be mushy around the holidays, but know that I can hold my own and don't put up with a lot from those who don't deserve it due to their caustic natures. So, once again....it really is all good. Just thought ya'll should know what's up and wanted to tease flinde a bit for helping me out with that. LOL

Yes, hon....and I'd rather not say and went to great lengths to ensure I didn't, but am sure some here will guess who the perpetrator of said PM is, without me ever having to elaborate on actual content or naming names, but will say this..... Please don't be angry at the gentlemen for this and thanks for your concern. I may be mushy around the holidays, but know that I can hold my own and don't put up with a lot from those who don't deserve it due to their caustic natures. So, once again....it really is all good. Just thought ya'll should know what's up and wanted to tease flinde a bit for helping me out with that. LOL Originally Posted by M A X

Hi,

Cool....I will back off...ahehehehe....I know you can hold your own..ahehehe...I was just holding my tongue for so long and I think you're cool and don't won't no one to disrespect you, that's all!...

And Flinde...is COOL! It's gets his blood flowing to have a good little debate...aheheh

Sincerely,
Wet

Hi,

Cool....I will back off...ahehehehe....I know you can hold your own..ahehehe...I was just holding my tongue for so long and I think you're cool and don't won't no one to disrespect you, that's all!...

And Flinde...is COOL! It's gets his blood flowing to have a good little debate...aheheh

Sincerely,
Wet
Originally Posted by WetVelvetSAT

I appreciate that sentiment and am touched.

And if you say flinde is cool, I will take your word for it. He did make me laugh, but of course everyone knows I'm easily amused. LOL

back atcha, sweet lady, and here's one for flinde