Seriously? A text for an intro?? Definitely not flying in my book....
I actually removed my public number that was listed to "members only" at a different site because of a text.
Like oh yeah I'd love to text LE today. Sure no problem..... lol-- NOT
I'd prefer an e-mail intro. I did mostly phone calls back in the day... but times have changed and so has LE. I might take a phone call and verify on the spot, but that's a long conversation IMHO. I prefer the email. I screen a gent and then do a quick 45 second phone call for verification. No big deal....
Most men who are interested in meeting with me want a provider who is hyper vigilant in screening.
I like men who like hyper vigilance. I want to know the people I see have safe habits in general. To me, that's attractive and a turn on
I checked out a Syracuse man with a 607 area code who contacted me via text. He can text me anytime?????? but panicked when I called the number. Lol craziness.!!
I will say that screening via a text with me is TOTALLY a PITA for both the gent and for me. What a horrible way to start off!
Send an email with general good times to reach you typically works best.....
As for the gents contacting me via text after we meet- yes, I am somewhat open to that. But I'm pretty paranoid and paranoid keeps me safe. Lol So it depends on how well I know a person.
I enjoy the "two call sysytem" whether it is one email with one phone call or etc etc. People develop habits..