Texting vs. Talking

Always Horny's Avatar
I personally dislike speaking on the phone even in personal life... I prefer texting its easiest for me and my google voice is broke or something so my calls go straight to vm for some reason.

But I would speak on the phone briefly for an appointment of course of thats what they would prefer. Originally Posted by Amber Does
Me, too.

I've never liked talking on the phone in any aspect of my life. And as for the hobby, I only see verifiable reviewed providers, so the risk is very low in that regard.

But, I get what AJ says. And certainly, the first time I'm seeing someone, I definitely want an actual conversation for the final setup.
Always Horny's Avatar
Awwww thanks tiger..ive found that the job I had years ago..
Being a Phone sex operator helps tremendously with this
Adventure..
True story.. Originally Posted by aj14620
Holy crap! You were a phone sex operator? You never told me that.

Can you play an Asian slut for me?
Haha!!give me a few days to practice..and yes..I can..
stuckinsyracuse's Avatar
For me I'm on the phone all day. Text is convenient. Don't need to leave office or anywhere else and just discreet for me. To each his own.
offshoredrilling's Avatar
What I really hate
at home or at a bar, they call when I can text
ok now that I am on my way driving I get text when I have a good blue tooth speaker phone
then when parked wants a call errrr wtf
SweetElizabeth's Avatar
Seriously? A text for an intro?? Definitely not flying in my book....

I actually removed my public number that was listed to "members only" at a different site because of a text.

Like oh yeah I'd love to text LE today. Sure no problem..... lol-- NOT

I'd prefer an e-mail intro. I did mostly phone calls back in the day... but times have changed and so has LE. I might take a phone call and verify on the spot, but that's a long conversation IMHO. I prefer the email. I screen a gent and then do a quick 45 second phone call for verification. No big deal....

Most men who are interested in meeting with me want a provider who is hyper vigilant in screening.

I like men who like hyper vigilance. I want to know the people I see have safe habits in general. To me, that's attractive and a turn on

I checked out a Syracuse man with a 607 area code who contacted me via text. He can text me anytime?????? but panicked when I called the number. Lol craziness.!!

I will say that screening via a text with me is TOTALLY a PITA for both the gent and for me. What a horrible way to start off!

Send an email with general good times to reach you typically works best.....

As for the gents contacting me via text after we meet- yes, I am somewhat open to that. But I'm pretty paranoid and paranoid keeps me safe. Lol So it depends on how well I know a person.

I enjoy the "two call sysytem" whether it is one email with one phone call or etc etc. People develop habits..
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
I prefer to do screening and booking via email, text, pm's in that order. I don't take phone calls for initial contact or to do my screening but after screening has been done (by text/email/pm's) I don't mind a quick chat if the gent wants.
Chica Chaser's Avatar
I checked out a Syracuse man with a 607 area code who contacted me via text. He can text me anytime?????? but panicked when I called the number. Lol craziness.!! Originally Posted by SweetElizabeth
Maybe his wife was sitting next to him when you called
sunfish's Avatar
aj

needs no practice
SweetElizabeth's Avatar
Maybe his wife was sitting next to him when you called Originally Posted by Chica Chaser
Exactly!! Why text and expect a reply (blind) and can't take a call??

Tsssssssss

Cr a zy.
Hello?

I turn my number off. Period. It's off. No texts. No calls. No nothing. Of course, I can do that now. It used to be you call I answer..

Like, if you reach out blind, you might expect a blind call back...

Imho/ijs

Isn't that the word??
SweetElizabeth's Avatar
Haha!!give me a few days to practice..and yes..I can.. Originally Posted by aj14620
!!!!
My number one (and only suggestion) for your area.

Yes, I have "met" you in person, and

"yes, yes you can..... "


many kisses,
Liz
I personally prefer texting than talking during sex...The less I have to hear her voice the better!!!!! LOL
SweetElizabeth's Avatar
I personally prefer texting than talking during sex...The less I have to hear her voice the better!!!!! LOL Originally Posted by 57jpeg

Lolol
Have found email and call by phone works best for initial contact. Then text works best for repeat visits once we get to know each other better.
Amber Does's Avatar
I have intial contact only via email as well and go to texting after I screen and ONLY before a date and nothing more.