proper etiquette with a bbbj

One thing I loooove is...

I ask, "You ok with CIM?," and she nods while still trying to maintain her rhythm. Coupled with a muffled (cuz her mouth is full) "uh huh", and life is good.

Of course, she could yank it out, say no, and proceed with a list of dos and don'ts, but if she has reviews, that type of provider can be avoided.
I personally prefer not to CIM because my teeth are never really 100% "done" enough to assure protection for me...my dentist will eventually get a new speedboat out of me!
But....I have found a tactful way to finish and stay sexy while not getting my molars doused in the special sauce...it has yet to "ruin" a finish for the gentleman. You just have to be good at making your partner feel like he's a dessert you MUST have NEVER just pop up and start Talking while you are bj'ing...Thats some high school shit at best, and a real "bad ass" lady doesnt break stride to lay out stupid rules...
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Or you could just have heald her head in place for another 30 seconds and it would not have been in your hand. Tight grip equals less slip. Originally Posted by CoonAssinLa
That might not go so well..... I think only a fucking asshole would do that . I'm sure your not an asshole. Are you?
What's the point of BBBJ if the provider won't CIM? Ain't nothing like a full presssure release in a warm mouth while she keeps sucking. I could give myself a handy if I wanted to nut all over myself lol..
If a gal doesn't want you to CIM and can't tell when it's about to happen nor figure out what to do about it, she has no business in this business.
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If a gal doesn't want you to CIM and can't tell when it's about to happen nor figure out what to do about it, she has no business in this business. Originally Posted by Charlie Angel

Give that lady the big DICK trophy award!!!!!
Communication. Q & A
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  • 5T3V3
  • 05-20-2015, 07:04 AM
if I were a provider ... and we are getting to that all important stage in our relationship that I was about to put your dick in my mouth ... my assumption would be that you are going to finish with your dick shoved down the back of my throat or you might decide to whip it out at the last second and blast my face or spackle my tits ... either way it might be helpful as a professional to know what your plan is or to inform you what my limitations might be. So, while I am still free to use my mouth being as it is yet unoccupied - I might say "it's ok to finish in my mouth, but I don't swallow" or "I don't let you cum in my mouth, so let me know." or "how do you want to finish?" or even just to be sure we are all on the same page "baby, I want every drop of your sweet cumin my belly".

It is exclusively the providers responsibility to clarify her rules.

Now if you are the kind of providee that has a special respect for these ladies, and want the session to be mutually satisfying as most here do, then sure, ask a few questions and get clarification up front especially with a new lady, but that it a kindness, a politeness - but in the end that provider controls the session and as such should control the rules ... IMHO
I come up for air a lot so I ask for a waring so I don't get it in my face =/
CIM is waaaaaay easier to clean up =)
That might not go so well..... I think only a fucking asshole would do that . I'm sure your not an asshole. Are you?



+1
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  • Tetas
  • 05-20-2015, 08:57 AM
What's so hard about screaming at the top of your lungs "OMG, I'M GONNA CUM!!!!"?
That's what I do and have NEVER caught a girl by surprise.
If a lady is paying attention to what she is doing, her partner's climax never comes as a surprise. I have never NOT known someone is about to orgasm.



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I come up for air a lot so I ask for a waring so I don't get it in my face =/
CIM is waaaaaay easier to clean up =) Originally Posted by Madison May


Agreed. Easier clean up. COF is much more PSE.