Is helping a provider in their personal life a good thing

i think when you make the choice to do this..you cross a line..a serious line..that can result to some serious consequences..
people tend to lose their minds when lines like this are crossed and usually its the 3rd party surrounding the hobbiest and provider that gets "hurt"
and it will never ever ever ever stop at.."this one time"...and also try to keep in mind what the name of the game is your playing..
..sincerely, aj.. Originally Posted by aj14620

Intelligent answer.

Anyway I'd say somewhere around 100% of the time guys do this in an (inevitably failed) attempt to wiggle their way into some bargain pussy.

The hooks usually describe some predicament that they've fallen into, through no fault of their own and strictly due to some disastrous unforeseeable circumstance, which has them temporarily in need of anywhere from $10 to post a bp ad to $1100 to pay their (and their hoodlum boyfriend's) rent, that they would love you to pieces if you would help them out of just this one time.

In both cases, the players are either completely or merely generally full of shit and the customer inevitably finds himself short significantly more money and pussy than he would be if he simply followed the traditional pay-as-you-go-along model.

No? Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Me thinks you satisfied your own curiosity.

There is an example of motivation for sex and a special circumstance. With a cherry on top. I for one could not disagree with your specific example without sounding a fool.

Me thinks you satisfied your own curiosity.

There is an example of motivation for sex and a special circumstance. With a cherry on top. I for one could not disagree with your specific example without sounding a fool. Originally Posted by Ceremony

So what I'm asking is why would one consider doing this.

You can get the cherry on top by simply paying for it and dispensing with the make-believe altruism.

I'm genuinely curious.

what I do wrong this time

So what I'm asking is why would one consider doing this.

You can get the cherry on top by simply paying for it and dispensing with the make-believe altruism.

I'm genuinely curious. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Some altruism isn't make believe. Some have convinced themselves that it is genuine. Others try to convince others that it's genuine. the motivations for all but the first can vary I guess. Example: bargain pussy. I think your advice to just pay for it is sound.

absolutely not

fuck and leave

Her... Hi I really need $$$ for ????
Me... Well I can come over and do a session.
Her... No I really just need some cash for ????
Me... How about I come over, take you to the store and pickup ???? for you.
Her... Well no I just need some cash for ???? and so and so can take me to get ????
Me... Well, good luck......
Her.... Fuck you asshole!
Me... Yeah that's what I figured....

Some altruism isn't make believe. Some have convinced themselves that it is genuine. Others try to convince others that it's genuine. the motivations for all but the first can vary I guess. Example: bargain pussy. I think your advice to just pay for it is sound. Originally Posted by Ceremony

I'm looking for an explanation of what the upside may be.

ask her if she wants to accompany you to a slut walk...

if she will with out any compensation



I wouldsay your in!!

Her... Hi I really need $$$ for ????
Me... Well I can come over and do a session.
Her... No I really just need some cash for ????
Me... How about I come over, take you to the store and pickup ???? for you.
Her... Well no I just need some cash for ???? and so and so can take me to get ????
Me... Well, good luck......
Her.... Fuck you asshole!
Me... Yeah that's what I figured.... Originally Posted by ben dover

Lol!

Fukin' awesome, Ben!

elg......

ask her if she wants to accompany you to a slut walk... Originally Posted by JONBALLS

jimmie jesus bless ..karl marx

Her... Hi I really need $$$ for ????
Me... Well I can come over and do a session.
Her... No I really just need some cash for ????
Me... How about I come over, take you to the store and pickup ???? for you.
Her... Well no I just need some cash for ???? and so and so can take me to get ????
Me... Well, good luck......
Her.... Fuck you asshole!
Me... Yeah that's what I figured.... Originally Posted by ben dover

Couldn't have said it better!

i think when you make the choice to do this..you cross a line..a serious line..that can result to some serious consequences..
people tend to lose their minds when lines like this are crossed and usually its the 3rd party surrounding the hobbiest and provider that gets "hurt"
and it will never ever ever ever stop at.."this one time"...and also try to keep in mind what the name of the game is your playing..
..sincerely, aj.. Originally Posted by aj14620

Yahtzee!!!! There are no lines to cross with taint ... ijs.

Simply put..NO...You're inviting drama and why pay extra for that?

A fool and his money are soon parted.