For what you want.. you'd probably do better on CL even, responses might be hella slow but if you know how to weed out spam and can discern those who are not serious you might find someone worth seeing. Also, try POF.
Any man of reasonable means and confidence should be able to go out into the real world and find SBs... that's where half of my patrons come from. Whenever you're dealing with anonymous online personas you can expect alot of meh before you hit pay dirt. You don't go out?
Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus
I go out often, but rarely to never in a situation where I'm available to meet people. As in, I go out for business dinners, or parties...but not to clubs or bars. I'm somewhat shy and afraid of women in person, so even were I out to dinner by myself, and a stunning woman sitting by herself at the next table over, not only would I never say anything, I would studiously avoid even glancing in her direction.