Condom Broke!

I just hope it wasn't the last provider you reviewed BP Khloe who openly advertises BBFS Originally Posted by wellendowed1911
No. It wasn't her. The lady I saw yesterday isn't from backpage. And she didn't offer bbfs.
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If she didn't seem to be worried about it, you probably shouldn't be either. I'd like to think most quality providers aren't out to screw you over. These things happen, and they're unfortunate for sure; but just be a responsible and reasonable adult in this situation.

Though, I can understand your concern depending on said quality of provider and your at home situation.
  • oeb11
  • 06-11-2015, 09:20 AM
Couple of sites - info on management of potential HIV exposure -
1. HIV - if partner is negative - you will not contract HIV. If positive - post-exposure prophylaxis (treatment) must be started in 72 hours. HIV testing will not be positive this early.
Sites- https://aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/pre...e-prophylaxis/
https://aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/pre...e-prophylaxis/

HIV testing windows - includes "early tests".-http://www.sfaf.org/hiv-info/testing/hiv-test-window-periods.html
2. Other communicable diseases.
http://advocatesaz.org/2014/09/08/th...roke-now-what/
I hope this helps - not only OP but anyone with these questions.
oeb11
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That's why I bring my own. Some of these girls have cheap condoms that don't fit. Originally Posted by Taurus99
Lack of lube causes this. It's unbelievable the number of providers that don't keep lube. Originally Posted by jwood
Yup, this ^^ also. The combination of the two is not good. Originally Posted by Taurus99
Yep. I always keep lube handy, and bring my own covers. Some of these ladies will just grab a pack from any corner store while getting gas and a soda.

Dallas has a million condom stores all over the place (Condom Sense, Condoms To Go). These are the mecca of condoms, and they're NOT expensive. A 12-pack of Crowns might be like 14 bucks. Kimono's are pretty good, albeit not that big (they're made by Japanese, so, there you go), but they do make larger versions, which work well for average guys. 10 to 12 bucks. Shit, you're buying a 3-pack from the corner store for $4.99, some of you. Do the math. 3 blocks down the road, you can get more for less. More and better, for less.

Get some lube, too. WATER BASED LUBE. This means it's not eating away at the condom that you suck the lube off of (if you're a CBJ'er). Astroglide is badass. A couple of drops will save you 18 years of car payments (otherwise knowns as child support) and/or worry of catching something.

I like smooth friction when I'm doing the do. When I feel that drag feeling, I get worried. There tends to be more lubrication when it's skin on skin. This is one way to tell when it's bare, because it will SUDDENLY start feeling super good (not condoning bb, btw). With condoms, sometimes there's a drag, even though to her her pussy may be 'wet'. I just don't like that feeling and want to lube up when I do feel it.

There's nothing wrong with being cautious and prepared. If you feel inclined to lube up, you probably should...if either person does.
Get tested right away before you bring it home. Don't have sex with your wife until you get your results. Don't go to your regular doctor and don't use your insurance. Go to planned parenthood, tell them the situation. Don't use your real number because if you do have something they are required to inform the CDC who will call you to make sure you are taking your pills but do use SOME type of actual number that you can be reached at because they do make an effort to find you...Do your HIV test anonymously - they have a 20 minute rapid HIV test that is $20, and you can check in under John Doe.
I used to volunteer for planned parenthood.. so I know a bit about it..They got you covered and are very accepting and understanding and affordable. Originally Posted by Maggie_May
Isn't patient info protected under HIPAA privacy rules? Why would doctors be required to report to CDC but not planned parenthood?
  • JB91
  • 06-11-2015, 02:17 PM
Both of y'all go get tested, it's the smart thing to do. There are tests that can show positives within 10 days post-exposure.

There are free testing sites in DFW that will test for everything.

There are anonymous sites that cost $ that will run specific tests, usually the tests ran for HIV require a longer window period.

Send me a PM if you need info on above. Most of the places the people that run them are pretty cool and spare the shame lecture.

You could do a PEP regimen if you and the dr think it is warranted. Lots of money and you will have a new respect for those who are on meds for the remainder of their life.

All positives are reported to County and CDC no matter what your told.

Don't leave your rubbers in the car or somewhere there exposed to heat. Get some that fit right and are not of questionable age or storage.

Same thing happened to me a long time back. The freakout will not help you. I tested negative then, and again recently.
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I was with a provider today and the condom broke. It was OK for the first couple of positions. But after doing k9 I pulled out and noticed that the condom broke. The head of my penis was completely uncovered. She was pretty dry. Now I'm all freaked out about stds. Especially hiv. She told me that she gets tested for everything once a month. She didn't seem to be too worried about it. How worried should I be? Has this ever happened to any of you guys? Originally Posted by Biff Biffington
Your primary concern may be misdirected.

Depending upon your swimmers and her eggs, the first should be the writing checks. If you are over 50 and she is in her 40's the odds are in your favor. Ergo the fertility tests.

That considered, there are STDs not as troublesome as HIV. Ergo- visit a non family Dr.

HIV is the least of your issues- but that will be taken care of by a visit and testing mentioned above.

Wishing you happy news about a blown tire. BF Goodrich went broke. I buy the best.
I am amazed it too home that long to figure out that the condom broke. the times I had that happen I knew instantly. The feeling went from really good to mind blowing in an instant
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Biff's pee pee is going to fall off.