Outcall to your House?

I would never invite a provider to my home, nor do I expect to travel to her home during incall. Always a nice (upscale) hotel even if it's with a provider that I see regularly.

No, no, no & No!!!!
1. Divorced, single man's house can be buglarized ,,,I travel 90% of the time,
2. Family and friends can visit without notice,,,
3. Mercy Knight plotting on Mitch ,,,,she pleas for a place to stay,,,stay,,& stayy.
You single and stupid for a minute.

I have had visits many times with those I have seen on a regular basis to their homes.
One gentlemen would always ask me to let him know when I would be on his street so that he could open his garage door and I would pull in.

I think on both parties, the hobbyist and provider. It takes trust all around. A lot of people you can just get a good or bad vibe about them. I never go dressed looking like a slut / hooker / escort...etc. I always let them know that I will be dressed casual but with heels on. Just in case there are neighbors around.

Just be smart about it.

I have visited gentlemen's homes before, but I always make sure that I blend into the environment when I do visit. I would never dream of showing up in a neighborhood during the day while I'm wearing attire more appropriate for a hot night on the town.

I have always tried to demonstrate discretion when visiting. I don't want to cause jaws to drop. And if he trusts me enough to visit his home, I want to blend in and not raise any suspicion from the neighbors.

Kisses,
VP

After they finally haul my ass to the nursing home, I will want my hooktards to fall by for visits in Full Metal Slut regalia. Piss off all them old women in there, keep 'em off me.

I have had several Ladies come to my home when I was single and when the SO is out of town. I have them drive directly into the garage and then put the door down. If you know the Lady from past experiences, it can be quite nice. Familiar place, music you like and wine or something stronger to offer the Lady.

For all my ASPD days as well as here, out calls to my house were the norm. In the summer I had providers come over and spend the day in the pool. I had regular providers who would come over to the pool even when I wasn't home.

BP FBSM ladies also but never BP Providers.

Only had a couple of issues in all those years. If I had an SO I would never do it, even if she took a 3 month space walk.....neighbors see everything.

I actually enjoy outcalls to private homes where we can both be comfortable and away from the scrutiny of hotel staff and other guests. I've done countless, but mostly to single, divorced, or widowed gentlemen. I tend to be much more wary when the fellow has an SO, especially if she is just away at work and not out of "unexpectedly dropping by the house for lunch toting her concealed handgun" range.

Most gents I have visited involved in supposedly-committed relationships used a guestroom for playtime, but occasionally we used the same bed that he and the SO slept in. I make no judgements about another person's morality, as that would be hypocritical given my profession, but I will admit to feeling extremely apprehensive and thinking it was disrespectful, but for some fellows, that heightens the thrill.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Home delivery of Irish Chihuahua burritos?

I'm single and have a second home, a loft downtown that has 24 hour door man and video surveillance. I live primarily in a gated community in a south Montgomery county development. with a guard house at its entry. Providers are told that the guard / doorman will make a photocopy of their photo ID. I have only seen providers who are reviewed on ECCIE and I schedule them thru P411. I have never had a lick of trouble and the providers tell me that this is most comfortable for them. This avoids almost any risk to me. No "driver" has access which is a huge plus. I just won't go to a hotel to see a provider.

I prefer OC to my home when the time is right. Of course only verified reputable providers (with no "driver's") are welcome. I feel more comfortable, the interaction more genuine.

Neighbors can be a issue. That is why it's best to have visitors after dark. I do hide valuables and limited the areas they are welcome in. Once they leave, clean area of evidence. The next morning clean again. It never fails. They always seem to leave a trace behind.

I've done out calls to my home many times it's more fun banging in your own bed. The down side is you must do the cleaning yourself. Bed sheets and triple checking that nothing is out of place or even worse is something new. I've found lingerie left under the bed before that can be pretty hard to explain.

.............................. ........................... I've found lingerie left under the bed before that can be pretty hard to explain. Originally Posted by Trey

dang you Trey! ha, ha. then again I do keep clicking the thread. wasn't going to comment but that made me chuckle and remember.

have a shirt from a non-active showcase found later. it's a nice serendipitous memento

I've found lingerie left under the bed before that can be pretty hard to explain. Originally Posted by Trey

Not your size?

I've had two providers to my place. One was my ATF who used to stay over a couple of times a week. We met several times at hotels, etc. before I ever invited her over.

The other was a HDH who was visiting from Cali last year. After my late afternoon session we were chatting while I was getting dressed. She asked me where she should have dinner and I gave her a few suggestions. She then asked me if I wanted to join her, no additional donation. I'm completely single and don't have any issue being seen out with different women. We went to an upscale sushi spot and then went out afterward for drinks. This is when she turned the party girl mode on and we both ended up getting shithoused on I don't know how starfuckers/red headed sluts/ whatever the hell else we were drinking. She ended up crashing at my place because we were ready to just pass out. I took her back to her hotel the next morning with the worst hangover I've had in a long fucking time. It was a helluva fun evening though.

Not your size? Originally Posted by chicagoboy

Lol, I'm pretty sure she'd rather it be another girls. I also don't think I want to travel the path of "oh, that's my teddie baby.."