Just my 2 cents...

You are too SL. I know some of the nice things youve done.

You are too SL. I know some of the nice things youve done. Originally Posted by Reincarnated

But I'm not as cute as you!

Well thats obvious...lol

SL and RE, y'all should get a room!!!

JK...

HB

If I were looking to meet girls I wanna get to know on a personal level I do believe I would join one of these sites:


http://www.pof.com/

https://www.okcupid.com/

I agree with what others have said, show up on time, pay the agreed amount, and don't be a Prick. That's the best thing to do. Going into sessions with the intention of geeting into a provider's personal life sounds a little Creepazoid to me, but that's just me.

If I were looking to meet girls I wanna get to know on a personal level I do believe I would join one of these sites:


http://www.pof.com/

https://www.okcupid.com/

I agree with what others have said, show up on time, pay the agreed amount, and don't be a Prick. That's the best thing to do. Going into sessions with the intention of geeting into a provider's personal life sounds a little Creepazoid to me, but that's just me. Originally Posted by Little Monster

And to think all these years these chicks called me "creepy" was because of my looks and now I find out it was because I cared!

I never said Little Monster that I go in and purposely start digging into their lives. If it happens to come up though, depending upon what is/was going on, I may or may not choose to help whether it be a shoulder to cry on, advice, or or in some rare occasions more.

And to think all these years these chicks called me "creepy" was because of my looks and now I find out it was because I cared! Originally Posted by Still Looking

SL I've been reading your reviews as long as you've been posting them on here, and from what I gather you're not the "Captain Save-a-Ho" type. Taking pictures and Troll Dolls are your thing.

And there is nothing wrong with caring, I've made a couple provider friends myself over the years. Nothing wrong with lending out a helping hand if asked.

My guess is most of you just have a good time and leave and I get that, but for those of you that have the time and have a tender heart like I do, take a minute to learn about their struggles and be a guy that does more that leave money on the table. Do something to help, even if its something as simple as giving them a ride to the store for something, to make their live a little better. If enough of us do that, we will have improved their lives and their kids lives immensely and helped these wonderful ladies feel loved and appreciated, something they all have been greatly lacking in their lives.

Just a thought..... Originally Posted by Reincarnated

We all have problems. We all are going through or just went through a storm. We all want better, both for ourselves and for those we care about. This is nothing new. Just another one of life's many dynamics.

When I'm with a provider, I don't think about those things tbh. It's not important to me. Whats important is me sharing this moment and my body with her and vice versa.

I just want to get lost for a few hours. Originally Posted by Jon[s]

And you reply with....

I hear that Jon(s).....many times me too, but that is what my ATF is for! She is wonderful, well adjusted and has had a normal life, she just likes to play, but she travels alot... Originally Posted by Reincarnated

OK, Jon says he see's providers to get a break from the stresses of the RW and have fun for an hour. You say "That's what your ATF is for", yet you have over 50 reviews? So why see all these other girls if you only care to have sex your ATF???

I never said Little Monster that I go in and purposely start digging into their lives. If it happens to come up though, depending upon what is/was going on, I may or may not choose to help whether it be a shoulder to cry on, advice, or or in some rare occasions more. Originally Posted by Reincarnated

You didn't say it specifically, but I'm just going by your previous posts in this thread that's all. I seemed as though you were suggesting we start asking these girls about their personal life. If I'm wrong I apologize.

My ATF doesn't live in Austin unfortunately and with so many fine women here to play with like Dara and Gigi and Selena and others Im gonna play an enjoy an hour of stress relief too. I just happened to run into a few lately that need some help.

While I whole-heartedly agree with the chivalrous attitude expressed, I suspect that the greatest challenge in these ladies lives is affordable housing. The current housing cost balloon in Austin is a tumultuous obstacle that leaves me feeling powerless. I wish there was a non governmental solution to this issue.

Between the (hate on) Whispers threads and the ReInc. threads, sometimes I wish there was a middle way ...

Wait there is ....

Respect !!! and help when asked and when you can ....
Some seek out these situation more than others (IJS)

Housing (a solution): I like the Laufhaus'es in Europe, food/shelter/work, of course prostitution being illegal, kind of hard to set up here, but that would work.

I feel so misunderstood now!

There would be a great deal more credibility in such actions if one were to offer such compassionate assistance without fucking her.

Otherwise it's just White Knighting and fantasy.

Show her that you see her as someone other than a depository and maybe she'll take pause to wonder if your gesture of really caring just might be legit.

She's had an entire life to learn that men always have an agenda.

Once you've fucked her you're just another john who's living the "Help a hooker fantasy" and she'll be only too happy to take from you. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

This.

My ATF doesn't live in Austin unfortunately and with so many fine women here to play with like Dara and Gigi and Selena and others Im gonna play an enjoy an hour of stress relief too. I just happened to run into a few lately that need some help. Originally Posted by Reincarnated

I tried to get funding for the Reincarnated & SL" Help A Hooker Foundation" but the hooker tapped out! I'll keep trying!