Racist Providers?

I don't consider it racist to choose who you will or will not sleep with. What about those that won't see under 40 or 30 year old? If a provider doesn't want to see white guys, I wouldn't call her racist, I would just look elsewhere. Every woman has a right to choose who they WON'T sleep with. I think it's a good thing that they state it in their ads. If prevents wasting time and possible later confusion.

By the way - I don't see very large (BBW) women. Isn't that discrimination also in your terms? People have preferences. I bet you have women you don't even consider to visit the in the hobby, isn't that a similar situation. Why can't providers state their preferences in their ads. To me your post is more about stirring contraversy.

Being of predominantly AA descent I've had my share of "polite refusals". However, I have also had more than enough wonderful encounters with providers of all races over the years. While I may not be keen upon a lady posting that she does not see AA men, I can respect her choice and actually am glad she post as such. Let's me know ahead of time not to persue. I've scheduled with ladies who I ended up having a less than stellar appointment with only to find out later they preferred not to see AA men. Had I been forewarned I would not have wasted mine or hers time. Whether racist or not, I just view it as their prerogative. Plenty of other lovely ladies out there to bring this tygre to attention!

If you think I'm just starting controversy then fine think that, but I think I have the right to voice my thoughts on this as well. I see providers of all races as long as they have good reviews. Let me say this, I prefer hispanic or puerto rican providers, but I DON'T disregard providers of other races.

Cowboy, Why should there be a question at all? Or maybe we should have a long list of questions.

1. Why do some hobbyist see petite blondes?
2. Why don't all hobbyist see gay men?
3. Why do providers have age requirements?
4. Why don't all providers charge the same amount per hour?
5. Why do some hobbyist only want to see tall providers?

This list could go on forever and the only answer is because that's what they prefer. It's as simple as that. Trying to read more into it than that is futile. Originally Posted by Budman

That's why I said I could be wrong...but you are right everyone does have their standards and preferences....

I have discussed this topic with some providers who would not take AA clients. And I'm not going to rat them out, or agree or disagree with their reasoning, or get into the racist argument. I am just reporting based on the sample space of my discussions with those ladies, including some AA providers who would not take AA guys.

In addition to the preference thing mentioned, they do this because of a history of getting slighted on payments or tips. And I've had some tell me that they had the similar experiences with the lower tips while working as waitresses. This isn't a government or public service with equal opportunity, so they will mask it with "personal preference", or "my p*ssy is too small for big d*icks", or anything else to avoid the clients that they do not want.

just read the 1st post...sitting here rolling my eyes thinking:

• if i had a dollar for each complaint of "discrimination" i wouldnt need to provide
• if i was given a dollar for each time a hobbyist skipped my ad, bc im not blonde, dont have blue eyes, dont have long hair all the time, or short hair all the time...or even bc i have hair...
• if i was given a dollar because my ad was skipped bc my rate is over $200...or because my rate is under $500...bc im not fat, not bbw, or not super skinny...or bc i only have 2 tattoos...and 2 was too many, or because 2 was not enough....................
• if hobbyist ONLY paid me a dollar bc im "EVERYONES" type..i could retire in no time!

you get my drift???

GET OVER IT!!!

THIS IS NOT AN EQUAL OPPURTUNITY "SPORT"....lol are you gonna report who ever to the better business bureau because we refuse to see a hobbyist for whatever UNFAIR reason??
DOUBT IT. NO ONE REALLY CARES!!! (and unfortunately, i doubt this post is gonna change whomevers reasoning)

im AA mixed and it annoys me most when AA hobbyist complain bc of the NBA policy...
maybe i should complain bc hobbyist have a NBA policy & refused to see me (just kidding)

GET OVER IT, MOVE ON...AND HAVING FUN WITH SOMEONE THAT WOULD APPRECIATE YOUR COMPANY AS MUCH AS YOU DO HERS!

WOW...... um, yes mam.

lol....have fun!
dont sit around wasting time on things you cant change

Damn....Miss Pritti Kitti fires away....must be all the time at FT Hood...

Theres lots of providers who DO see AA men. Theres PLENTY of beautiful and fun women in this biz, when you come across ones who dont prefer AA men, there will be a prettier and more open woman who does see them. Make it fun for everyone (:

lol...no...not "firing" lol
it just annoys me to hear complaints this hobby isnt fair....ya think?
its one of the most precious things were allowing men to enter...
and to hear a complaint like such is kinda silly

sadly, there will be a million more posts on this same topic

gotta agree w gabby!!
oh...lol and i dont take this personally...i dont discrimnate based on race...
lol i *do* discriminate based on handle...but thats a whole nother thread

[quote=Puzzeluver10;832456]I haven't gotten into the hobby like I wanted to, but I still check out this site from time to time, but I couldn't help but notice that the number of online providers that refuse to see AA men is going up. Am I just blind of something that's going on or is racism becoming an issue between hobbyist and providers. Just wanted everyone's opinion on this in fact, here are some ads:

http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...x-y-23/3682113
http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...-e_-24/1581389
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=141011[/quote

1. The hobby and those who participate in it is no more or less racist than the general population of the United States. That's scary.
2. The idea of diversity and treating all people equally is great when it’s a thought but we it gets serious like whom you fuck that's something different.
3. People have the unequivocal right to decide with whom the share their bodies with for love or money.
4. Has a Black Male hobbyist I appreciate it when provider make it clear that they do not see Black Men it keeps me from wasting my time
5. Yes, I hate the fact that a provider may be just has nuts has some of the people I work with; that they may judge me based on some real or perceived experience that they had or saw on TV. For example I have been told by some providers of all races including some Black Women that they don’t meet Black Men because: 1) They don’t tip well 2) I was short change once 3) they take to long to cum and their dicks are to big (wow wish that was my problem) 4) they are violent 5) don’t have good hygiene and many more. My reply has been would you give up seeing White Men or Women because you had a bad experience with one or even a few.
6. People have the unequivocal right to share their bodies for love or money with those they choose to
   
7. There are many of great ladies who see all races, shapes and sizes lets give them some recognition
8. Yes I do tip

interesting read... i love how everyone has become so liberal...lol, ask the same question when trying to buy a car. would each of you feel the same way if red mccombs turned away a "customer" because he or she is AA? would you say..."oh they can go buy from any other dealer ship" , "its the dealerships choice who they can sell a car too"... i seriously doubt it... yes this (hobbying) is not considered a legit business transaction , and yes this is a transaction with service. ask the same question in 99.99% of any other business and this whole thread would be on the other end of the spectrum. so why shouldnt it apply here? for many reasons... kissing ass? trying to be profound? blah blah blah... call it what it is... kudos to those who see the forrest in spite of the trees.

I haven't gotten into the hobby like I wanted to, but I still check out this site from time to time, but I couldn't help but notice that the number of online providers that refuse to see AA men is going up. Am I just blind of something that's going on or is racism becoming an issue between hobbyist and providers. Just wanted everyone's opinion on this in fact, here are some ads:

http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...x-y-23/3682113
http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...-e_-24/1581389
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=141011 Originally Posted by Puzzeluver10

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