If your SO was as awesome as me...

I have enough stress managing my own hobby life, I can't imagine if I had to worry about her having one as well. If she found out and new for sure, with undeniable proof. It would absolutely devastate her. It would tear her whole world apart. She would dwell on it the rest of her life. That's why I'm so careful Originally Posted by Bigdaddy14606

^^^^+1^^^^

Curious? SD v SO. If he stopped paying you, would you still be with him?

To get back on topic, had a threesome with her once, mutual GF. Never again.....it happening or bringing it up Originally Posted by splitlicker

Did it go bad or something?

Yeah, I don't really believe in monogamy. I'll always be bi/pan and a poly swinger. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I do believe in monogamy. I also believe that sometimes people just "Need", even more than wanting what's "untouchable"
I don't ever need or want to be with another man. I'm very well satisfied with what I have, emotionally, physically, sexually, mentally... I'm very fortunate.
I wouldn't ever NEED to have another woman again... But it's great to share that experience with each other. I believe it brings us closer together. I've contemplated seeing girls on my own... But for me to Toftt... Is kind of too risky for me. I want to get off... And most girls just don't do it right! When Sir and I fuck a girl together, I'm aroused by just watching. I get extreme pleasure from him having fun and playing. I also like to "attack" the girls... Make them squirm, cum... And become even more eager to please him! I'm also pretty sure that he really enjoys the way that I interact with the girls.
Unless the girl is REALLY into other women.... I have little desire to go it alone.

Finding an SO like you would be easier said than done. Since her and I don't even have sex, there's not much point in trying to talk her into anything. Originally Posted by blthzr666

Yes, I'm sure that women like me are darn near impossible to find! I've always allowed my guy to have sex with other women... The biggest rule is not doing it behind my back... Shit, even just a text that says... I'm about to fuck some ho... As finding out some other way, really pisses me off, and has happened almost EVERY relationship that I've had.


Well that's no fun! Have you ever thought about this topic when you were sexually active at home?

Yes, I'm sure that women like me are darn near impossible to find! I've always allowed my guy to have sex with other women... The biggest rule is not doing it behind my back... Shit, even just a text that says... I'm about to fuck some ho... As finding out some other way, really pisses me off, and has happened almost EVERY relationship that I've had.


Well that's no fun! Have you ever thought about this topic when you were sexually active at home? Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist

Only in my deep subconscious maybe. But I'd be totally willing to have an arrangement like you two have. Life has to be way more interesting in your world!

I have enough stress managing my own hobby life, I can't imagine if I had to worry about her having one as well. If she found out and new for sure, with undeniable proof. It would absolutely devastate her. It would tear her whole world apart. She would dwell on it the rest of her life. That's why I'm so careful Originally Posted by Bigdaddy14606

Ditto.

Women like you are not impossible to find at all. This is just not the place to find them. They would be on SLS.

Have talked a little about it and she shows no interest what so ever Originally Posted by rodeomann22

Lol

Did it go bad or something? Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist

I thought it went great. She was too embarrassed about it, sooooo never brought up again.

Only in my deep subconscious maybe. But I'd be totally willing to have an arrangement like you two have. Life has to be way more interesting in your world! Originally Posted by blthzr666

Ahhhh yes... It is very interesting being able to live as such

Women like you are not impossible to find at all. This is just not the place to find them. They would be on SLS. Originally Posted by newcpl

Sure... I'm not disagreeing...

I thought it went great. She was too embarrassed about it, sooooo never brought up again. Originally Posted by splitlicker

Awww... That sucks.

Women like you are not impossible to find at all. This is just not the place to find them. They would be on SLS. Originally Posted by newcpl

lol


YUP!!

Haha dating is way more expensive than being a SD. He's so frugal he won't even buy himself new clothes more than twice a year. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Are you sure he isn't me?

Buying clothes twice a year? Hell, he's a spendthrift!

Maybe I should rewordreward that, I would never date ANYONE that didn't have a pot to Piss in. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

And even though we ain't got money...