Review: Sweet Baby Beth - Wastes my sweet time

I have no idea what this man has said in the ml or ros that I can't see, but he was very pushy through texts and texting in an aggressive manner and it scared me. Originally Posted by SweetBabyBeth

We all know that's BS. Some WK gave you a heads-up and now you're doing damage control.

Why are you taking it so personally? An NCNS is bound to happen in this "business" and if she's done that before than why are you surprised it happened again?

I'm already halfway scared to meet with men I haven't met before and his actions are what got the appt cancelled. Originally Posted by SweetBabyBeth

hmmmm ... no ... I'm calling bullshit. you have been on the board several years and have over 80 reviews. All are "yes" .. so you know the drill and you know how to deliver quality sessions. the time for 'cold feet' has passed. you know what you are doing.

the client has also been around the board for several years and has 29 reviews. he has a history. because he has a history, if you screen properly ... any issues should have surfaced ... again ... if you have screened properly.

folks who have been doing this for awhile appreciate that cancellations happen. when they need to occur, the ncns by a provider or a client is always unacceptable. you know that, too.

this guy selected you from among hundreds of options available to him. he deserved better treatment.

I passed on her a long time ago. Research is your friend. On the other side of the coin, I'm always nervous when meeting a new lady. That's what makes it an adventure. However, cricket's are happening more and more lately and that's totally not cool

the client has also been around the board for several years and has 29 reviews. he has a history. because he has a history, if you screen properly ... any issues should have surfaced ... again ... if you have screened properly...this guy selected you from among hundreds of options available to him. he deserved better treatment. Originally Posted by dodger

Ehhh...gonna have to disagree with this. I mean, he could be lying, she could be lying, who knows. Reputations are what they are, but her story isn't proven invalid through the details provided.

If she's telling the truth: providing can be risky as fuck and one tends to learn to use her spidey senses the longer she's in the business. There are stories of girls being raped by regulars (you know, both properly screened and lacking red flags in person). Some of our most notorious rapists (non-violent, but still...christ) drum up a handful of solid references before fucking over a few girls, disappearing, re-emerging, then building up a few more solid references. They stalk, threaten outing, threaten force, and really fuck with gals' lives. Lather, rinse, repeat. I'm not saying dude being a hot head or just being an entitled SOB via text makes him as slummy as some others, but if a girl starts feeling uncomfortable at any point in the discussion she has every right and reason to pull the plug.

If he's telling the truth: I'm not in the camp who thinks girls here owe the boys anything. I mean, if your rates are x I think you should provide x level of service (e.g. $250+/hr girls should be freshly showered, semi-dolled up, and in a clean and safe incall) BUT just being a provider doesn't mean that you magically owe anyone anything beyond the literal transaction, be it regulars or prospective clients. Those who are in the camp of thinking the girls here owe the boys the respect to run their businesses professionally have their arguments, I guess. But they're also the same guys who will book a girl regardless of an unprofessional reputation and a history of NCNS just because she looks super extra enticing in her photos. Yes, professionalism helps keep a business growing strong, but it's nothing owed to anyone. So long as a girl has enough pussy-whipped or don't-give-a-fuck regulars, enough interest from prospectives, and enough monies in the bank, she'll provide whatever level of service she damn well pleases, and sometimes that's real shitty BCD, TCB, or YMMV whatever...

Bla, bla, bla...

when in the face of a decision with two sides disagreeing, go with the historic evidence.

She flakes every 6 months and gets called out for it. She offers some lame ass excuse & does it over again.

Those are the facts, & they are not disputed.

Eh, then she's hot enough and provides good enough services (when she doesn't flake) that demand remains high even when professionalism isn't there. Nothing new here.

being safe is ALWAYS better than being sorry. Alot of businesses have a sign posted
"we have the right to refuse service"

We are no different. Originally Posted by Alexxxiana Azul

This defence is funny... So I ask you:

Don't businesses also provide their address to customers so their customers can transact their business - be it virtual or physical?

Granted some businesses conceal their corporate headquarters for certain reasons but not their place of business transactions.

I hear ACC offers a business 101 class. I highly recommend at least auditing that course if you don't need the credit hours. It may be of value to several of you ladies.

That's no lie...

Eh, then she's hot enough and provides good enough services (when she doesn't flake) that demand remains high even when professionalism isn't there. Nothing new here. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

True...but scraping the bottom of the demand barrel is risky....burn enough bridges & that's all that's left.

Some Hoogars don't care...a benji is a benji...some prefer to have less sketchy clientele.

Always best wait until both sides have had their say. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

Still only "he said she said" never going to know. But as mentioned better be safe then sorry, just move on, shit happens.

IB

This is so crazy... You guys are going to bash me bc I texted this man and told him I was not comfortable seeing him because he was texting me in an aggressive manner? Since I have to spill it, I was in a visit with another gentleman when he first texted for the address. When thatvisit was done I got my phone to text him the address and had several messages from him, and they started getting ugly. At that point I was not feeling comfortable having a visit with him and texted him and told him that. He said he was sorry let's start over, but I did not want to. He told me he was going to do this so I was already expecting this. I have had ncns issues but this was not that. I told him I did not want to see him. So gentlemen, excuse me for going with my gut feeling about him. And BB I do try hard to stay away from all the drama. You created this thread, and now here I am defending myself to everyone on eccie because you acted like an asshole. Thank you so much! Your assholeness is much appreciated. NOT!

Did you tell him this before or after appointment time?

Did you tell him this before or after appointment time? Originally Posted by black sunshine

I can answer that: NO

I had to threaten her with a text that I would write a bad review just to get her to respond with her excuse that she didn't feel comfortable. That was about 12:45pm and 15 minutes past our scheduled time.

It was ONLY after her NCNS and when 1230pm had passed that my texts got ugly. Can anyone blame me for that after waiting patiently for her for 45 minutes when I could be doing something else besides waiting on a flake.

Three choices she could have made and we wouldn't be discussing this:

1. Send the address with ample lead time for me to plan to be at the appointment on time

2. Send a text BEFORE the appointment time that you aren't comfortable and cannot accommodate the appointment as a result

3. Pick up the phone, call and talk through it since text messages don't convey tone and meaning as well as the human voice, thus can easily be misinterpreted as aggressive, hostile or rude. I texted her asking if she could talk because I got the impression she didn't understand why I needed the address more than one minute before the appointment.

Simple! Take notes SBB. That's the protocol.

Text should never get ugly, shows immaturity!

IB

Sounds like that day was a revolving door. Finish with one in with another. Not my cup of tea. That's worse than crickets.