Just curious... How did she become your ATF?

I have a few ATFs who sends me videos and pictures without even asking. If I'm seeing you weekly or bi-weekly, reasonable rates would be great. Not a clock watcher. All my ATFs spends more than an hour with me at the hourly donation. Relaxing, talking, hugging, kissing, resting with a nap. After the nap, it is msog with them initiating.

Initiates MSOG without being told to and uses all of her skills and techniques to make it happen Originally Posted by citizen44

I agree with Citizen. one huge factor is when she initiates MSOG.. whether I am up for it or not, that makes me feel like she is not all about the money, even if she is all about the money.. Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

After the nap, it is msog with them initiating. Originally Posted by PaulWalker

THIS HERE ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^

(The "miss davenport can kiss my butt" criterion)

AND

She brings delicious food that she cooked from scratch, enough to keep me fed until her next visit

Hmmm. I almost always go a little over the hour, at the hourly donation. If you enjoy my company it just happens. Especially if you're talking about something that bothers you, I'll not interrupt you in the middle of your story to tell you the time is up. I don't have a clock but I can always feel it when it's up.

Few minutes over is no big deal, but I need my time to be respected. I will not spend two hours with you at my hourly rate. Even if we get along, you've got to remember it is still a business. It's funny because I had this one regular, work alcoholic, seemed under a lot of stress. I offered him a free dinner date session, and I think I scared him away lol. He probably thought I was falling in love, when in reality I was trying to do something nice for him.

You mentioning food gives me a great idea .

Your question is actually part of the answer. Someone who is interested enough to want to know what I want is a great starting point. It goes without saying that this is a YMMV activity. We've all had the experience of being with someone, both here and in real world, where there is just no spark. It happens. Get over it.

However, even when a spark has been ignited, a repeat is still an iffy proposition. Boys will always act like kids in a candy store. I want to try the next one too. I may have just had the best session in my life, but I wonder if the next one will be better

During a GFE session, I'm going to get mine!! But, it is even more satisfying to me when I feel that I'm also providing a little pleasure. If I were the World's Greatest Lover, I wouldn't be purchasing the experience. So when I believe that you are also enjoying it, my pleasure increases dramatically. I even like to be shown what gives you pleasure. I'm going to get mine!!

I also need timely communication about our appointment, a fresh and light-to-natural aroma, and no cell phones during my time with you. Remember, it is all about me. I'm interested in knowing that your personal life is OK, but a little time talking about how bad your day was goes a long, long, long way. Remember, it is all about me. Make sure I know that you are happy with the donation, but don't focus on the donation. Remember, it is all about me.

Never text or call unless we both understand it is OK. However, an unsolicited PM after the session can reignite the spark. If you want to see me again, let me know. It is titillating when I receive a PM out of the blue.

Ladies, thanks for the pleasure you provide. I hope every session is a potential to become an ATF!!

She tells me she loves me, I am soooo big and Im the only one that makes her cum.

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If you don't have a decent set of regulars, it's your IOP or TCB that's the problem Originally Posted by citizen44

yup

My ATFs have all been, among other things:

1. Smarter than me (This is not hard.)
2. Happy to wear high heels when I ask.
3. Text me if I want some company. Now.
4. Say they love me long time. (And I believe it.)
5. Independently start MSOG while not watching hockey.
6. Geographically desireable. (No more than a 30 minute drive.)
7. Go out for lunch or dinner date after session and off the clock.
8. Confide personal stuff I'm surprised to hear. (I believe this, too.)

Chemistry.
You provide the flame and I'll bring the gasoline.