What does GFE mean to you?

I guess I'll add my two cents before this gets out of hand.

To me GFE= DFK, BBBJ, MSOG, DATY, are the root bare minimums. Also throw in some high level IOP (make it feel like you enjoy us being there) no problems role playing or wearing specific clothes, pillow talk and snuggling/cuddling, and showering together.

Aren't there multiple threads on this topic already? Originally Posted by ICU 812

Enough to write an encyclopedia, but the OP's a newbie (not even 2 months yet) who has yet to learn the glories of the ECCIE search engine.

I figure gentlemen new to the Hobby ought to get a break for at least 60 days.

(And before someone points it out, no, I'm not as lenient with most ladies new to ECCIE, as many have already been providers for some time on other sites and should have an inkling of how adult recreational boards work. We gals are supposed to be the "professionals.")

Enough to write an encyclopedia, but the OP's a newbie (not even 2 months yet) who has yet to learn the glories of the ECCIE search engine.

I figure gentlemen new to the Hobby ought to get a break for at least 60 days.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Thank you Ms FHs. for understanding. I never intended to anger anyone. I have been reading and learning a lot from everyone. I hope you have a wonderful week.

to me it's kissing, lots of kissing, not necessarily FK. Being affectionate and playful with a lead up to sex. Interestingly I have had the best GFE and illusion of passion IOP with agency girls, usually Latina's.

GFE....I think will vary.
But I generally go by...What would Cyndi do in real life.
For one...I love to kiss. I love making out. I enjoy blow jobs and I would never date someone in real life that did not like DATY. Cuddling on the couch or me sitting on top of your lap. Conversation, a drink on the table next too me and go from there.

What defines a GFE to you? Both providers and clients chime if you like. I ask because I see most providers offer this. Some even say "Best GFE or Ultimate GFE" yet in menu say no kissing or DATY, but they do offer BBBJ and/or CIM. Now I've never known any person who has ever told me my GF/SO won't kiss me. On the other hand, over my many years, I've heard many men say their GF/SO/wife will not do BJs. I ask this cause for me DFK is top priority when with a provider. Everything else is negotiable I just love kissing and for me it makes everything else seem much more profound. Thanks everyone.


P.S. Some of you providers are amazing going by your reviews. Everyone enjoy hobbying and remember, being nice and respectful goes a long way. Originally Posted by bon69

Not to dump on you dude, but this dead horse has been getting beaten since Jesus was in Jr. High, with no definitive conclusions reached. Let it go.

For me, GFE means ya gotta kiss me like you missed me. Big time.

GFE in my book...BBBJ, DFK, Mutual Touching, DATY, MPCS, Greek, CIM...etc...I love to do it all.
I like things to be fun, enjoyable, and exciting for everyone!! Even myself!! I love to be pleased also...

Just get naked and fuck safe

HHHHhhhhh...

True GFE.

DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CIMNQNS, MSOG.

I can tell you who these are...

But I won't.

Fuck me.... Then wash my clothes..... I can buy dinner where you want to eat?

GFE:
- Relaxing bubble bath for two, drink wine, tell jokes or talk about life in general.
- Massaging your temples with my inner thighs when you have a headache.
- Making you feel like the most smart and sexy man I've ever seen.
- Suprising you with a little treat once in a while (Cookies, chocolate bars, etc)
- DFK, LFK, BBBJ, CIM, DATY, DATO, GREEK, moan often, fuck everywhere.

Just no bitching and nagging lol.

to me it's kissing, lots of kissing, not necessarily FK. Being affectionate and playful with a lead up to sex. Interestingly I have had the best GFE and illusion of passion IOP with agency girls, usually Latina's. Originally Posted by spear88

There is a reason John Wayne only married Latin women. Just say'in. Plus, I love brunettes!

Here is something I found interesting. I saw CourtneySt.Clair a few times. For those that aren't familiar with that name, she was in real porn out in California back in the day. She is now a Houston based provider.

In one of my visits I mentioned that a certain hobbyist had PM'ed me inquiring about her skills after reading my review of her. I told her I gave him the info he requested and closed my PM with - "It is not often you get to have a PSE with a real porn star!"

She got pissed, explaining that most hobbyists equate PSE with BBFS and Greek, which she would not do. I apologized, we kissed and made up and had a great session. Afterwards I PM'ed the guy and told him that I did not mean to imply Greek or BBFS in my response to him.

Who knew that PSE means BBFS and Greek? I sure didn't.


Link to review for reference.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=779187

If PSE means bare back full service , that's the first I've heard. I assume GFE, DFK, Bbbj, CIM, msog, and DATY. PSE adds DT, BLS, and perhaps Greek, TUMA, and generally more wild fucking instead of cuddling and chit chat. But that's just me.