Tis the season I guess

I am a firm believer...."what goes around comes around" Stacy you won't see any
return from him....but somewhere down the line he will get what's coming.

sorry this happened..... i hope you blow up his name and his phone number in the powder room to the other providers and if another one gets the call i hope they call you for a reference lol.......

i like to drop the donation on the desk and go to the bathroom and when i get out of the bathroom its gone an then drop some maybe tip money on the desk too and watch the fireworks go after the tip money too lol......... all in fun

Post him on providerbuzz.

That blows...glad you are ok. And it's not offensive before...it's part if the deal.

I'm a no-questions-asked kinda guy. Get the business done head of time without a word. I mean, before I even get there she knows how long a time frame i'm wanting and I know how much her time is.

Granted, there has been one time where I grabbed the wrong wad of money and handed to a provider at the beginning of a meeting and she counted it and said the amount was fine. It wasn't until afterwards that I discovered that she had been shortchanged by about $20... not a drastic amount, but still not what we agreed upon. I texted her immediately and she said it was all good and not to worry about it.

Meetings should be like mullets... business up front... party in the back!!

I don't think there's absolutely ANYTHING wrong with counting the money...i mean, it's not like you actually KNOW the person. The money is the main reason that you're agreeing to see the person anyway, at least make sure itz all there....lotz of "slick" dudes out there.

FS - A mullet, that is a vivid metaphor! lol

The ideal scenario is for him to just lay it in plain view then excuse himself to the bathroom. In the short time it takes him to wash his hands, it will be counted and out of sight as though it were never there. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

This is an elegant solution, I like it! Originally Posted by Starry69

I agree that this is a good way to handle it and to make the woman more comfortable if you haven't met before. But it should be pointed out to the men that this does create the opportunity for the woman to sneak out of the room while you are "washing your hands".

Of course, any woman who would do that would get bad reviews and a reputation, so it is important to know who you are seeing. If you are unsure of your date's reliability, it's probably best to just handle the money when both of you are in the room.

I have had that happen before but mine was a little diff. He paid up front for the first hr and had laid down his receipt from the atm which included his balance so after seeing that i thought it would be ok to do a couple more hours. Well we went to the atm and go figure he couldn't get anymore money out..He said he must have maxed his spending limit for the weekend.So he called the bank first thing in the morning he said there was nothing he could do..Needless to say I was screwed out of $400.00 he never came back and paid me..He has called a few times claming he is coming to pay me and wants an apt. but never follows through..Ladies always get your money up front !!!

I'm sorry to hear this, too. I'd post his info where everyone could see it. One of the things I've always enjoyed about the "hobby" is that we all operate on the honor system. Someone else mentioned this, but I ALWAYS put the donation envelope where the lady can see it, then excuse myself to the bathroom to freshen up so that she can count it discreetly. By only seeing ladies that are well reviewed, I don't worry that she'll take the money and run.

Putting this in perspective, if you're in any business, particularly services, over time you are occasionally going to take a hit. That's just part of any business, though it doesn't make it right.

question for the ladies? do you prefer the gift in plain sight or in a envelope?

I'm really very sorry this happened to you. And at this time of the year.

He'll get his. I wish you could be there to see it, but he'll get his somewhere in life.

You're getting some good counsel here.

cici, did this guy live in lees summit? I had the exact thing happen a couple years back, would tell me to wait a 7-11, said he was on his way, worked for REMOVED BY CAPTAIN KAOS.

hmmmm no this guy REMOVED BY CAPTAIN KAOS but i think he use to live in REMOVED BY CAPTAIN KAOS i had his info pulled lol did his name start with a REMOVED BY CAPTAIN KAOS?


CiCi - I think you can appreciate how important it is to not share this info in such a public setting.