Lack of tact

What a rude bitch. Wish I could see what she looks like ...

What a rude bitch. Wish I could see what she looks like ... Originally Posted by Gemma34

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I'm pretty thick skinned, but I thought a simple "no Im not" would have been sufficient. 😂 Am I off base for thinking this was totally rude? Originally Posted by arealwingdinger

You are correct; she was totally rude.

Everyone has feelings that can be hurt. A simple "no I am not" or "I would prefer not" would have been sufficient.

In a business where customer service is a must, how does any individual think they'd move ahead with people skills like that? How rude & completely uncalled for! I can show u how sweet a genuine lady can be

Wow. I don't know who she is, but all I can say is - what a bitch!

First off, if seeing fat men bothers her that much, she needs to find another occupation pronto. It is fair to say that more hobbyists have some extra weight than hobbyists who don't. Hell, more Americans in general are carrying some extra weight these days.

Secondly, again if seeing fat men bothered her so much, then she should have expressed her appreciation to you for giving her a head's up rather than ripping your head off. You shouldn't have to warn a lady that you are heavy, but kudos to you anyways.

send me the fat boys...I'll ride em as long as I can!! lol!!!

All you pretty ladies make a old " single " chubby hubby feel good!! Have a nice day and play safe.

reading this made me feel good. not the original post--that woman in reference is a jerk and an idiot for treating you like that. she's lucky you don't just list who she is and blast her to everyone else. But I felt good reading so many providers respond nicely....I think providers are smarter than most women and have realized guys are a bit more self-conscious about this than other women realize....and so their attitude and behavior about it is better (usually) as a part of customer service and simply as being nicer to other people. I used to be in great shape with about 6-7% bodyfat....now I can't see my abs anymore and it bothers me. I'll get back there someday....but in the meantime it's nice to spend time with those who don't make me feel bad. So anyway, thank you ladies!

I agree. I always wonder if I should warn the ladies that I see that i am a big guy (and then I'd have to clarify that I don't just mean big down there :P ). I've never done that because I figure the ladies are professionals and can handle it. Now I'm starting to think that I should say something when making the appointment. I REALLY don't want to see someone with that kind of attitude. I just know I'd see it on her face when she opened the door.

I feel like I have to clarify that I'm in a wheelchair, but I expect that. Especially if I'm doing an outcall because I have to make sure I can get in. I can't believe someone would do this, well I can just sorry to hear it. Luckily there's a great group of women around this area, I know you can have a good time with one of them.

That's her loss, and another gals gain I agree, she was pretty damn rude, and could have been nicer.. There are plenty of ladies who do not judge a man by his weight. I'm one of them. I always say I don't care what your skin color is, what you look like, how tall, or if your over weight. As long as you are a gentlemen, we can definitely have some fun..

Drop me a line on who this is because I want to see her at once.

Not only am I fat, but I'm a lousy lay, and hung like a gnat. Her trifecta.

Wow, what a rude bitch! I've had clients tell me their height and weight and want to know if I will still see them. I never truly understood why they felt the need to tell me. It's never been a problem at all for me. Sorry this happens guys, makes me sad: (