How do men visualize the PERFECT provider?
OK, here's one of my things. The ladies' ads have some fabulous pictures, as mentioned before. Lingerie....heels...hair and makeup done. And then I show up - and the girl on the other side of the door is wearing sweats, flip flops, hair pulled back, no make up, the nails and toes that were nicely done in the pics are bare or chipped to hell, etc.. I hate that. If you're going to look your best for the pics, then look your best when I get there! Although there are other examples of this, I always think of Nikki Monroe. Whether I am seeing her for a quick session or a long one, when I show up, she's wearing something sexy, she's got her heels on, makeup done, hair done, looking gorgeous, everything is shaved smooth that's supposed to be. That's part of what I pay for.
I had a provider say to me once that, "But that's a lot of work!" I replied, "That's odd. A lot of work is what I did to earn the money to pay for this."
What do I want? Look hot when I show up. Be courteous, polite, and friendly. If you have a pet, don't have the pet present in the room when I'm there. I like dogs as much as the next guy but I'm not there to pet a dog, I'm there to pet you. The truth is that, like most guys, I'm not all that demanding. But a little goes a long way.
OK, here's one of my things. The ladies' ads have some fabulous pictures, as mentioned before. Lingerie....heels...hair and makeup done. And then I show up - and the girl on the other side of the door is wearing sweats, flip flops, hair pulled back, no make up, the nails and toes that were nicely done in the pics are bare or chipped to hell, etc.. I hate that. If you're going to look your best for the pics, then look your best when I get there!
I had a provider say to me once that, "But that's a lot of work!" I replied, "That's odd. A lot of work is what I did to earn the money to pay for this."
Originally Posted by Kshunter
My work starts
well before I put on my fucking makeup.
....(A LOT OF WORK)
I travel often, so I do my research before I arrive. Sure I have certain preferences, but sometimes it is a picture that captures my attention. For me, a denim skirt, a button down shirt slightly opened, or a picture of an ass in jeans can grab my attention.
Then there is some research into past reviews, and the providers posts on this site. I seem to be lucky in getting a feel about someone this way.
As someone else posted, scheduling an appointment a day or two in advance builds up the anticipation of the date. Some providers will text or email, setting the mood. I have also enjoyed a light dinner or a game of pool before a date, and let me just say that game of pool was some great foreplay!
Attitude and personality can make or break an encounter. Sure we all have off days, and I understand that.
I have had ladies dress up for a date, and come in normal clothes without makeup, and both are fine.
For the guys with P411, add some information to your profile, such as your likes, dislikes, clothing choices....... don't be crude, but give the lady an idea of what makes a perfect encounter.
A lady in boots, a denim skirt, and a button down shirt with no bra are better than a little blue pill any day!
OK, here's one of my things. The ladies' ads have some fabulous pictures, as mentioned before. Lingerie....heels...hair and makeup done. And then I show up - and the girl on the other side of the door is wearing sweats, flip flops, hair pulled back, no make up, the nails and toes that were nicely done in the pics are bare or chipped to hell, etc.. I hate that. If you're going to look your best for the pics, then look your best when I get there! Although there are other examples of this, I always think of Nikki Monroe. Whether I am seeing her for a quick session or a long one, when I show up, she's wearing something sexy, she's got her heels on, makeup done, hair done, looking gorgeous, everything is shaved smooth that's supposed to be. That's part of what I pay for.
I had a provider say to me once that, "But that's a lot of work!" I replied, "That's odd. A lot of work is what I did to earn the money to pay for this."
What do I want? Look hot when I show up. Be courteous, polite, and friendly. If you have a pet, don't have the pet present in the room when I'm there. I like dogs as much as the next guy but I'm not there to pet a dog, I'm there to pet you. The truth is that, like most guys, I'm not all that demanding. But a little goes a long way.
Originally Posted by Kshunter
EXACTLY!!!
Not only should a woman be dressed and manicured, professional, good hygiene etc. But she should be the type of woman you just can't get enough of! Always happy to see you and eager to please you! Nothing is more unattractive than an obvious faker! Ok so we're not always SUPER attracted to each and every client. But at the end of the day I do what I do because I love it! Because I'm good at it! And most of all I love being good at it! My top concern is ALWAYS to please no matter what! (And if I get pleased in return that's just a bonus ;-) )