For the record: I did send a follow-up PM Monday (a full day after I posted this), and she did say that she lost her phone for a few hours on Saturday.
I am not sure how my post objectified anyone, it was not my intent.
As far as continuous harassment: If my one post stating the facts as I see them constitutes such then I am guilty as charged.
Nevertheless; I guess it is obvious I called it in post #6 I apparently burnt this bridge (for everyone it seems)