Do providers enjoy dates when they dont have to fuck

The topic of this thread is "Do providers enjoy dates when they dont have to fuck". It seems to this moderator the question was asked hoping to illicit some responses from providers, but to date, only one has commented.

Instead, it has turned into a mess and an ugly sword fight. I am encouraging y'all to get back on topic...quickly.
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Okay - back on topic. Most do, some probably enjoy it more.

For those who question the OP's reasons, although I don't know his personally, in my discussions with providers this is not uncommon.
I feel it's a legit question. Hell, we all like to converse, share and laugh when together. Sex is just expected, when in fact, it doesn't necessarily happen each date. Most guys are very bashful bcd and the ones that aren't are Eccie whores anyways.

So, in answer to your question Mr Nyceguy, YES! I enjoy those types of dates without sex or bbbjs, it shows me a lot about a man quite honestly. Sex is always the icing on the cake, (because I'm a 37 year old horny woman) but it's just as fulfilling without.

I probably have less sex than an average teenager. Seriously. It's called enjoying one another's company.
I feel it's a legit question. Hell, we all like to converse, share and laugh when together. Sex is just expected, when in fact, it doesn't necessarily happen each date. Most guys are very bashful bcd and the ones that aren't are Eccie whores anyways.

So, in answer to your question Mr Nyceguy, YES! I enjoy those types of dates without sex, it shows me a lot about a man quite honestly. Sex is always the icing on the cake, (because I'm a 37 year old horny woman) but it's just as fulfilling without.

I probably have less sex than an average teenager. Seriously. It's called enjoying one another's company. Originally Posted by Gemma34




I have to agree 100% with you Gemma. Sorry I had to take off the bbbj part, lol..

Of course providers would enjoy a date without sex. Speaking for myself, it's not because I don't want to have sex with you, because trust me, I love it. But I like a change once in a while. Yes, it's a plus to be able to talk during, to get to know the person better, but not all guys are into that. Some just want sex and leave. That's why I like doing what I do, because you get to meet all different types of people, and get to know what they like and don't like..
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A good dinner and convo...? Who doesn't enjoy that? Ill be in KC soon hun, Id love to have a dinner date with you!
...YES! I enjoy those types of dates... Originally Posted by Gemma34
...Speaking for myself, it's not because I don't want to have sex with you, because trust me, I love it. But I like a change once in a while. Originally Posted by SpinnerSarah619
Depends on whether it's an "all about me" date or an "all about you" date.

Sometimes, the Challenge leaves little time for much else. Well, unless she taps out.
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The topic of this thread is "Do providers enjoy dates when they dont have to fuck". It seems to this moderator the question was asked hoping to illicit some responses from providers, but to date, only one has commented.

Instead, it has turned into a mess and an ugly sword fight. I am encouraging y'all to get back on topic...quickly. Originally Posted by scorpio31
so why do men hire escorts?
I love going to work and getting paid to have a "team lunch", were we sit around and eat and talk
so this wasnt a real question was it? because its really asking
who likes to get paid to hang out and not work?
I'm going to be the contrarian I guess.

I love to fuck. Simple as that.

I gave a BnG rate a whirl, but it just didn't suit me because I just plain and simple love to fuck. I love sucking cock too. Love it the way some women love chocolate. I like to think that I'm at the head of the class in the cock sucking department. Get it?? Head of the class? Get it? But I still just gotta have some cock too. Like the flowers need the rain.

So no, I don't mind appointments that don't involve fucking. I've done many appointments like that. But if the majority of appointments I took only involved cock sucking without the horizontal mambo, I don't think I would like my job half as much as I do.
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  • JS42
  • 08-29-2015, 02:21 PM
so why do men hire escorts?
I love going to work and getting paid to have a "team lunch", were we sit around and eat and talk
so this wasnt a real question was it? because its really asking
who likes to get paid to hang out and not work? Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker
You have shown to be about as narrow minded as they come, past, present, and I'm sure future. Men hire escorts for a variety of reasons, so it's not only for sex. I use the hobby for a specific reason as most guys do here, which is different from the OP. With that being said, whatever he chooses or doesn't choose to do with his coin is a providers job and work, because that's what he is paying her for, whether you agree with it or not.
algrace's Avatar
You've already posted about your reluctance to participate in many of the "mainstream" activities made available and most commonly reviewed.
We all have our tastes & preferences, but shouldn't you just post an ISO if you aren't contacting the provider(s) of interest directly? Originally Posted by algrace
Originally Posted by JS42
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Why does the OP have any need to justify his question or actions to you to begin with? Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC
agreedz! Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker
You have shown to be about as narrow minded as they come, past, present, and I'm sure future. Men hire escorts for a variety of reasons, so it's not only for sex. I use the hobby for a specific reason as most guys do here, which is different from the OP. With that being said, whatever he chooses or doesn't choose to do with his coin is a providers job and work, because that's what he is paying her for, whether you agree with it or not. Originally Posted by JS42
I'm glad we're all entitled to our own opinions.
algrace's Avatar
Truth be, YM!
DallasRain's Avatar
quote---I love to fuck. Simple as that.

hell yeahhhhhhhh ME too!!
bartipero's Avatar
Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. (Do I win?)
Dude, seriously? What gal wouldn't like to get her hourly rate and not have one of us old farts climb on top of her. Originally Posted by ScubaBad
This is #1 as far as I can tell...........