I never make resolutions. My grandmother used to tell us "Why wait for a new year to do what you should and could be doing now?" Recently, I've started looking to tomorrow instead of worrying about yesterday. This year, I've lost my grandmother, my friend and my husband all before the fall. I spent a while looking backward on what we all were to one another. Its nice to remember, but I'll go ahead now and look to what I can be in the future to others.
Cheers to all this in New Year!