Frustrated

Why do men who, after just one appointment, assume they made enough of an impression to use a lady as a reference. Originally Posted by Purrrsia

Do you ask new clients to provide references before seeing them?

In the "good old days," simple courtesy dictated a gentleman would tell a lady that he would appreciate her giving a reference to his intended target.

Those days kind of diminished when too many possessive ladies would "fight" back by offering specials instead of references.

Thing is, as many ladies have posted, they simply don't save a lot of info many times. And there are males who ask for a reference many months after a session.

Shoot! I sometimes cannot remember some playmates without looking back at my reviews, either. Originally Posted by ck1942

Quoted as a true sage as always CK - as one of your first "Grasshoppers" you and our dearly departed DennisRN taught me well - hence the longtime hobby success...and no references needed LOL!
But these new millennial nihilistic generation THINKS they know everything just bcuz they can push buttons on a smartphone but we are all witnessing the exact opposite is indeed the case!
If they were coachable things on this site would be a lot better off...

Some of the Asian ladies didn't ask for references. They checked who I reviewed and requested verification from the providers. I asked why they didn't screen me and they let me know what they did. It is actually pretty cool because I just made a request and they did all the leg work.

Welcome to the Anti-ThreAD.

True, candy or flowers are not necessary. I was just making a point that something like that could help a provider more easily remember a particular appointment. As CK mentioned, it's not easy sometimes to remember a person's handle, especially if many months later. Originally Posted by Purrrsia

Most time I ask the ones that I would vouche for to let me know when they are going to use me as a ref. It's like you said just because we've seen them once doesnt mean that we should vouche okays. Especially now a day when there's so much shady shit going on. Too many members acting cool one minute then flip the script and act a fool the next.

A few years ago a Dallas gal told me when she called for a reference on me, the girl on the other side started laughing and told her I was easy money and she wont break a sweat.

A few years ago a Dallas gal told me when she called for a reference on me, the girl on the other side started laughing and told her I was easy money and she wont break a sweat. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

So just like the rest of us mods, eh?

A few years ago a Dallas gal told me when she called for a reference on me, the girl on the other side started laughing and told her I was easy money and she wont break a sweat. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

You're never going to let me live that down huh Von?

A few years ago a Dallas gal told me when she called for a reference on me, the girl on the other side started laughing and told her I was easy money and she wont break a sweat. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

You're never going to let me live that down huh Von? Originally Posted by Little Miss Cuntcakes

Join the Club Von. I am sure my nickname with the ladies is "Easy Money". Haha. I am ok with it. I have had some fun times. Even if the "fun" could be timed on a stop watch.

as for references jut ask me ... all I say yes he's nice and would see again
or no I would not repeat with him again ..
no need to go in to deltas of your time with him ..
**or may say he's WM about 5'10 bal bal

I'm sorry Purrrsia if it was me that caused the frustration. It was never my intention. I will pm you today.

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