Is it rude..

JONBALLS's Avatar
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You should do what you have to screening wise to feel safe, if that is something you feel you need to ask, like was said earlier can if the person gets upset or whatever by it, maybe they weren't for you to see anyway
Amber Does's Avatar
Color? Lol do you mean ethnicity. ... maybe that may be less harsh
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It's good to kno if bbc comin on the set huh!? Whew Originally Posted by Carlos Danger
Not all bc are b
Not all bc are b Originally Posted by Amber Does
Hahaha there goes that myth!!!
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Color? Lol do you mean ethnicity. ... maybe that may be less harsh Originally Posted by Amber Does
Lol true. .. thanks hun xoxoxo
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Not all bc are b Originally Posted by Amber Does
The ones I have seen are lol
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Thanks guys for the input.. ; ) I kinda feel like a jerk when I ask but its nice to know
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It's not rude I like them all Latina black white Originally Posted by Missburger
How bout Irish with light skin and lots of curly red hair? Or is that love not just like ? ; )
QUOTE=KaylaRyder;1057144798]How bout Irish with light skin and lots of curly red hair? Or is that love not just like ? ; )[/QUOTE]

I don't think it's rude I'm black I've been ask quite a bit on here if a provider doesn't wanna see because I'm black oh well , there is plenty of pussy for sell who don't mind seeing a black man
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Color? Lol do you mean ethnicity. ... maybe that may be less harsh Originally Posted by Amber Does
Ask them "what's a good bar mitzvah gift?"

  • Bluee
  • 09-03-2015, 09:24 AM
What if they are not black, just Ethiopian?

Reference to a Gregory Hines scene in "history of the world part one."
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  • 09-03-2015, 09:27 AM
How bout Irish with light skin and lots of curly red hair? Or is that love not just like ? ; ) Originally Posted by KaylaRyder
I HWB and have been asked that question in the past and haven't taken offense to it. I just find it offensive when ad after ad says a No black men. Especial when you find out from gents who TOFTT that they lied about what they looked like, ended up being a thief or provided bad service.
But nowadays I see it as a sign that I need to take my time and money someplace else where ignorance isn't part of the package. To be honest avoiding those types have helped me find great providers.
Also, in regards to Kayla's other point about asking about age. I have run into providers who refuse to see young men 19-25 and get tired of seeing really old men.

Were all entitled to see whom we want so screen away. I agree with Amber the way you word it is more important then the fact you ask about it in the first place.
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In general I like a basic description of who I'm seeing so imo stuff like age, what race they are etc seem like very normal things to ask.