The Importance of Personal Hygiene and the use of deodorant

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In the past if a provider wasn't quite as "fresh" as she needed to be I just struggled through it. I certainly limited what I was willing to do however. Now I will absolutely not stay. It cuts both ways...I don know how a provider could possibly fight through an appointment under the circumstances the OP described.
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It's extremely important to me as well. Even after driving an hour to an appointment, I might ask for a shower, just to freshen up, even if I took a shower before I got in the car.

For everyone, a persistant foul odor can be a medical issue. A foul vaginal odor can be a sign of bacterial vaginosis, yeast infection. It may be embarassing to talk about but gals/guys if someone says ikky, please get it looked at. For guys, your diet can definately change your odor much like asparagas makes your ejaculate and pee smell aweful. BTW a yeast infection can be spread to a man and will thrive if they have a sweaty ball sack.
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Khloe, Sorry about the bad experience. I'll smell nice for ya. lol.

MHTiger
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I'm a big guy....Knowing this I take extra precaution when getting ready for my appointment. These ladies aren't going to want to do much if you smell like rotten ass. I usually double scrub and rinse then shower once I'm at a providers incall. The benefits of being Fresh are a lot better.
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I agree with alot said here but I will say, as a provider, it's our job to handle the ick factor with grace and composure. There are many cultural things, not to mention illness that can cause the problem and those that are inflicted with those ailments are rejected so often in the real world they come to us for comfort.

Please understand I'm not giving a pass to the guys that just don't wash their ass cracks (I'll tell you about the skid marks another time. I will never forget that asshat.)

Just remember when you are on the job, you keep that game face no matter what. Now, I've had the unfortunate experience of smelling rotting human flesh so it's very difficult to blow past my ick factor. Ladies it's a really good idea to familiarize yourself with some unusual smells just to make sure you don't fall unconscious when you come across them at work. Though I will say the review of such would be quite entertaining.
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You would think GROWN MEN AND WOMEN know better. Lil' saying goes that when you STINK you'll smell yourself before anyone else will so yeah come on. There are ways to treat funk than store bought deodorant. I would make him wash and wash until I couldn't smell it. I know he smelled that before you got there especially sitting in the d@mn room with his own funk.

Cultural relativism is out the door if you come or I come to you and you smell like what the hell happened. You're gonna wear deodorant or scrub till your underarms bleed or something. You don't want me funky you can't be funky either. That's it and that's all.


How important is personal hygiene to you? It is one of the things that will turn me off, right away. I mean, I know some countries, their people do not believe in deodorant, but come on guys!

I was recently scheduled for a 3 hour outcall appointment by an individual from Russia. When I arrived at his room and walked through the door, I was hit by the most rotten smell of bad underarm odor I have ever smelled in my entire life. And this was at a 5-Star Hotel in Uptown Dallas. I tried to stay, but just could not do it, because it was that bad.

What would you do? Again, how important is personal hygiene to you, as a provider or as a hobbyist?
I have this on my website, that hygiene is very important to me and that all hobbyists that see me should take it seriously. And on the same note, hobbyist should demand this from your providers too.

Besos,
Khloe Cruise Originally Posted by khloecruise
Thanks sweetie !

Wow!

I'm sorry this happened to you, Khloe. Originally Posted by Surge
Did you tell him directly that you couldn't stay because of his BO? I've been with two or three providers who weren't very fresh down stairs. I politely told them that I cannot perform under such circumstances. I've read a number of reviews where there was an odor issue, and most of the guys were able to persevere; honestly, I don't know how they do it. Originally Posted by zelly
Yes, I did tell him and he did take a shower, but being that he didn't believe in (Toxic) Anti-persperant, his BO was so bad that it was litterally making me sick at my stomach.
The best way, as many have mentioned in the past, is to tell the person, client or provider, that you love taking showers together, that it turns you on, and that you like to start out each session by lathering each other up. You can't have an issue with hygiene if you scrub him/her yourself

Some providers even make the pre-session shower there a requirement.

I can't deal with funky B.O. either. I absolutely cannot get turned on with someone who smells, and I may throw up if it's really bad.



BTW Khloe, you are gorgeous. Originally Posted by still-asleep
First, thanks for the compliment. And yes, that is one of my requirements is for the client to take a shower upon arrival.
Khloe- the eastern euros always smell like a hunk of old cheese. I work with them and travel to Russia, Poland etc. Have had to endure some very long overseas flights that were just horrible and that was even in business class. The worst is being in the subway in Paris in July and the train goes on strike; Oh-I would rather smell my dogs ass!! Just stick to most americans honestly.. Originally Posted by nosweat
Nosweat, I won't that far as to smell my dog's rear-end. But I never knew this until this client. Is it something that was drilled into them as children, to believe that all anti-persperant was Toxic? It is sad that they had to learn something like that, because this guy was really nice, but I just couldn't stand his smell.
Khloe, Sorry about the bad experience. I'll smell nice for ya. lol.

MHTiger Originally Posted by MyHeroTiger
Ya, you better smell nice for me
I'm sensitive to chemicals on me, but there is product called "Crystal" which is basically sea salt which kills the buggies whose ... waste products are responsible for the odor. If you don't want to smell like something else than you, check it out. I sometimes use cologne (usually Drakkar Noir which doesn't seem to irritate,) but only because it makes the girls trail me around the house sniffing the air like kitties in heat...

But Crystal will kill any BO that comes from under arms and if I may be so bold, between the legs or from the feet for anyone, regardless of gender.

I have no financial interest in the product, just a very satisfied customer.
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  • motor
  • 12-28-2010, 06:12 PM
If I had an appointment with a lady and she said I stank, I would be mortified and so embarressed that I wouldn't be able to perform.
I hope I am not hijacking this thread with my question...

When I arrive at a ladies incall, I always take a shower.

However, I have always wondered if I should re-aply the deodorant (I carry a small case with toiletries)? I always do but at times, I wonder if I should.

Any thoughts/inputs?

Sails