I just happened upon your thread as I was beginning a search for a date for my WIFE on our visit to NO next month. My wife is bi-sexual but had gone without the female attention for too long. A couple of years we began discussing how she might again explore/express this side of her sexuality. And that is how we arrived in the hobby.
To date she has seen five providers. Typically I have been relegated to the hotel bar for the two hours my wife ravages the other woman.

This last visit was in KC and I finally got close to the action. My review is here:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1519287.
Interestingly when I have posted inquires about female friendly providers in Kansas City many of the male hobbyists have become somewhat defensive. One mod even suggested I should be posting on a bisexual provider board -- lord I wish one existed! I also was told my wife should not post a review.
Anyway, thought I would share. Recommendations for NO ladies to join my lovely wife welcome!
Cheers.