When a Provider ......

I want to read your profile too ☺ Originally Posted by MissJae713

LOL...aww, it ain't all that, pretty tame actually.

Of course not! We're under no obligation to meet absolutely anyone. Originally Posted by Kylie Nicole

TRUTH!

LOL...aww, it ain't all that, pretty tame actually.



TRUTH!

Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Well in that case I need to bring the inner freak out than 😂😂😂

Well in that case I need to bring the inner freak out than 😂😂😂 Originally Posted by MissJae713

Babygirl you misunderstand, I meant the profile write up was tame, don't wanna be scarin' no one off intentionally...my inner freak is a different matter entirely.

Babygirl you misunderstand, I meant the profile write up was tame, don't wanna be scarin' no one off intentionally...my inner freak is a different matter entirely.

Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Lol gotcha 😂😂😂

LOL! Island Gent.... I don't think you are scary nor do you scare the ladies... at least not that I am aware of!


Funny Stuff here....


And sometimes, yes these guys do take it personally, although, they shouldn't. Like someone commented, it's business.
Now if we've scheduled, of course I do feel somewhat obligated to give a valid excuse;
But if we are at the beginning stage of screening, etc.
"Sorry, I don't think we would be a good fit/match." is the Go-to reply for me.

There's a lot of sketchy providers out there. As some of the BP trolls have found out.
But if I have the need to cancel, I do like to give an explanation, so I don't seem sketchy myself. It's rarely happened, but it has happened maybe 3 times out of the 5 years I have been doing this.

I've only been turned down by one provider in the way you described. It wasn't anything i said or did. It was because i had reviewed someone she didn't approve of. I was disappointed because she was leaving town. But in the end it was her choice and i had to respect that.

Lol gotcha 😂😂😂 Originally Posted by MissJae713

Excellent.

LOL! Island Gent.... I don't think you are scary nor do you scare the ladies... at least not that I am aware of!

Funny Stuff here....

And sometimes, yes these guys do take it personally, although, they shouldn't. Like someone commented, it's business.
Now if we've scheduled, of course I do feel somewhat obligated to give a valid excuse;
But if we are at the beginning stage of screening, etc.
"Sorry, I don't think we would be a good fit/match." is the Go-to reply for me. Originally Posted by FoxyNC

Not the least bit...and btw, I thought you'd be in H-Town by now?

I just wanna know who's in mr666's avatar and if she'll approve me

Excellent.



Not the least bit...and btw, I thought you'd be in H-Town by now?

Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Been slow, so my nest egg hasn't grown as much as I would like, and the Mamacita is insisting I wait for my nice nest egg (refund) cause it's gonna cost a mini-fortune to move all my shit.. I mean stuff.
So I am thinking 6 month countdown right now....
I'm working on it. LOL slowly.
That's why I started posting & shit early early....
Ya know, "Provider with a plan" hahah

Been slow, so my nest egg hasn't grown as much as I would like, and the Mamacita is insisting I wait for my nice nest egg (refund) cause it's gonna cost a mini-fortune to move all my shit.. I mean stuff.
So I am thinking 6 month countdown right now....
I'm working on it. LOL slowly.
That's why I started posting & shit early early....
Ya know, "Provider with a plan" hahah

Originally Posted by FoxyNC

That's a solid plan...then consider this my six month pre-booking.

I've only been turned down by one provider in the way you described. It wasn't anything i said or did. It was because i had reviewed someone she didn't approve of. I was disappointed because she was leaving town. But in the end it was her choice and i had to respect that. Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

Let me guess, Caroline turned you down because you had seen and reviewed AlyssaXOXO?

Interesting, Citizen44--I wonder if that was why Caroline declined to see me. That was the one instance where I actually asked her screener why and was told, "we don't answer that."

It not like I was trying to insist on seeing her, but a vague 'no, thank you' doesn't tell me whether it was a timing issue or an "I don't want to see you" issue. I'd have liked to have known whether or not to try on another date... As it turns out, I didn't bother mostly because I didn't know if I was wasting my time.

I just wanna know who's in mr666's avatar and if she'll approve me Originally Posted by slacktide

It's Becky Lynch