Mutual Respect

Good Gawd.....

You are hot.......... Choose a new profession if this upsets you this much......or talk to Jemma and get her screening method.

To review:

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1506584

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1510009

We know know there is too much grease on somebody's fingers to post a link.

Don't you know with some of these fucktards it's all about them ???
This isn't the board from the past and before that. Not sure how much mutual respect exist anymore. Sad, I know.
Put them on do not see list and move on. Originally Posted by MOTOXMAN

I am surprised that eccie had any charm before the onset of the "fucktard." Eccie became popular because so much crap entered the hobby in Texas that it has become mandatory to do your homework on a girl. I never had to do that with the other boards as long as I stick with well reviewed girls but even well-reviewed does not mean squat on Eccie. BP quality girls have infiltrated Eccie and have made the guys a bit harder than usual.

Elizabeth..... you are a Babe-o-licious Babe overflowing with Babe-o-matic Babeatude.
And you have great reviews also.

Don't let any diptwits steal your mojo.

Well said Wolf......

Now the boys would like a cookie.... Originally Posted by FoxyNC

I'm not understanding the lack of manners here on ECCIE. Not all of you men, but a good majority of you are literally ruining the hobby.

...If I have wronged you, I've offered a discount to make it right. If I've denied you, that's your own problem and you should ask yourself and our references why. If you refuse my offers and want to continually troll my posts with hate, that's your problem and your wasted time. It doesn't affect me in any way and regardless of all the hate, bashing, etc. I've received, I'm still in business. Originally Posted by Enchanting Elizabeth

Sometime EE, it's better to just let shit go and keep it moving.

I'm not understanding the lack of manners here on ECCIE. Not all of you men, but a good majority of you are literally ruining the hobby.

I had a client from ECCIE contact me for an appointment. I set it up with him earlier in the week and thought we were good to meet at 10am. I get on my phone at 9am to text this guy and confirm only to see that he has already texted me.

My last message between us was confirming and being good for our appointment. In addition to that, he also randomly sent me a text yesterday afternoon trying to see If I could see him then instead of this morning at 10am... I never responded because I don't have my hobby phone on me 24/7. I didn't see this or any other messages until this morning.



Instead of a "Good Morning, Are we still on for today?" like I usually get from clients, I got a very rude message not asking if we were still confirmed but instead asking if I always do this to clients, just make appointments and stop responding..... um wtf?? Then went on to accuse me giving away his appointment time to a regular....

This is an hour before our appointment. Note, he hasn't even given me the chance to show up, perform, or even confirm our appointment before making these hurtful allegations.

So I'm assuming that because I didn't respond to something at the moment he needed me to, that makes me a horrible person who your going to assume gave your appointment to one of my regulars??! That makes no sense.

I'm so offended. I'm not even going to respond to him anymore and YES I told him this, didn't just stop responding. I told him to kindly take his business elsewhere.

Screenshots available.


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I just think it Is really sad that you guys get light of one mistake a provider has made and consistently hold it over her head and try to talk about the matter when you have never met me and have no idea the kind of person that I am. Either way, this disrespect and verbal abuse will not be tolerated. I may be a provider, but I'm still a human being. I don't deserve the name calling, false allegations and assumptions you guys create and have thrown at me all the time. I furthermore won't entertain, respond or even read negative responses.

Same goes for messages that don't contain the simple screening requirements I ask for: if you can't take the time to read my requirements and send me what I ask for the first time, I'm not going to take the time to tell you what you need to do. If you want to see me, you will take the time to comply. I don't see why anyone should get upset about this though? It's a business. I experience the same shit every time I try to get a reference request and don't hear back from providers sometimes for days/weeks and sometimes not at all. It's annoying and frustrating, but it's something out of our control. We can't control if and when someone responds to us and we shouldn't care to. Just move on to the next. Don't blame me for your misfortunes.

Mutual respect is key. I respect my clients, I have gotten much better in all areas previously reported as unsatisfactory and my clients who have actually seen me and spent time with me know this to be true. This includes communication issues, tardiness, enthusiasm, and preparedness. So no need to bring up PAST problems anymore.

If I have wronged you, I've offered a discount to make it right. If I've denied you, that's your own problem and you should ask yourself and our references why. If you refuse my offers and want to continually troll my posts with hate, that's your problem and your wasted time. It doesn't affect me in any way and regardless of all the hate, bashing, etc. I've received, I'm still in business. Originally Posted by Enchanting Elizabeth

The last word of you post explains it all.
If you run it right and have great TCB you will be successful for that alone.

If you have great TCB and your looks even more successful.
If you have the first two and skills well then my dear that is the hat trick
That makes bullet proof legends.

The evidence is on this board it is up to you how you run your business.

Personally I would like to see a pic from behind where you can hide your face and showcase you hair.

Take care

RDuke

Well now...the feisty redhead just gave me a boner! LOL

I've been away for the better part of a year and here I go feeling like I just walked into a candy store after lurking around for a few days and looking at some of the new talent.

Looks like Johnny has some catching up to do...

The last word of you post explains it all.
If you run it right and have great TCB you will be successful for that alone.

If you have great TCB and your looks even more successful.
If you have the first two and skills well then my dear that is the hat trick
That makes bullet proof legends.

The evidence is on this board it is up to you how you run your business.

Personally I would like to see a pic from behind where you can hide your face and showcase you hair.

Take care

RDuke Originally Posted by rduke4923

Agreed...well said!

IMHO...as long as your TCB is as accurate as possible, your service is impeccable and you keep that fine ass body...you have nothing to worry about. It's pretty much a given that some of the guys within this little "thing of ours"...have no clue in how to conduct themselves with enough couth to garner them a shred of respect.

Obviously nothing has changed, LOL!!

Well now...the feisty redhead just gave me a boner! LOL

I've been away for the better part of a year and here I go feeling like I just walked into a candy store after lurking around for a few days and looking at some of the new talent. Originally Posted by john353

What is you, Senor Numbers? My doppelganger? Or is it the other way around? She is enticing, ain't she!

If she has the voltage I think she might have, she'll stick around the ick just long enough to develop a loyal clientele, then go to the P411 only. She apparently doesn't suffer fools gladly.

I think the rude "fucktard" comments are more of an internet phenomenon. Something about posting anonymously online to unknown faces brings out a nasty side in people. Some TROLLS just have that nasty inner side of them, this just gives them an outlet.

Don't take it personally. If they weren't TROLLing you, it would be someone else.

EE:

You describe a negative encounter with one man - then categorize "majority" based on that one experience. Presuming that you're being accurate, and that 51% or more of your encounters (majority) are like this - and are ruining the profession for you....

See what you can do to turn that 1-49% of good encounters into regular customers. Seek out and advertise to specific men in ISO or PMs, or elsewhere that you think you'd like to see as a client.

What is you, Senor Numbers? My doppelganger? Or is it the other way around? She is enticing, ain't she!

If she has the voltage I think she might have, she'll stick around the ick just long enough to develop a loyal clientele, then go to the P411 only. She apparently doesn't suffer fools gladly. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

Greetings Don T.

Yes indeed...I do believe we seem to gravitate in the general direction of the spunky ones like Pepe LePew, LOL. Yet we've been doing that for the better part of several years now.

I like this one...I'm thinking I may need to get a sip and take in the bouquet.

I agree. Plenty of the best girls would rather work in P411 than deal with some of the bs that goes on eccie. The guys on eccie can be absolutely brutal even when they are spot on in their criticisms. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

I completely agree with you!!!!

P411 doesn't have none of the BS Eccie has ...