Ethics in Provider / Client business, honest question, I hope I don't get robbed

mrhamm's Avatar
Hmmm. What comes around always goes around one way or another. Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment
Oh fuck, I owe this world way too many BJs.
Iron Butterfly's Avatar
Fuck that sucks, I made sure I counted my donation this evening

IB
VictoriaLyn's Avatar
I personally normally don't like /wont talk about money at any point but this one time I saw a gent who left a super crazy extra amount in the card he gave me the amount left made it pretty obvious it was a mistake ..I called the second I noticed as I wanted to catch him before he drove to far away....
Turns out in his rush to see me what he thought he was counting as $10 bills were really $100 bills....
He was very grateful I was honest and it was rewarded.....
I really hope she returns the money to you
About 10 yrs ago a woman stole $500 from me. She was psycho, but she was also young and hot. I left her alone at my place after we had been hanging out for a month or so and she found my mad money and absconded. I called and told her if she didn’t return my cash I’d make a police report. She refused to return the money so I called the cops. They told me that since I had offered her the chance to make restitution, they considered it the same as a bad loan. If I had called LE first, they would have issued a warrant. So, I was just fucked, unless of course I wanted to ruin her FICO by calling the Credit Bureau.
i hope this works out for the both of you!
It pays to be nice to people, huh, Raikage?
Raikage's Avatar
It pays to be nice to people, huh, Raikage? Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment
Umm .. wtf are you talking about?
illuminati's Avatar
24 hours is up, so if she hasn't contacted you then you need to ought her and don't believe any excuse she gives you because she sure as hell counted that money the moment she walked out of the incall.
That is one frustrating mistake to be made! Hopefully you two can make amends and correct the mistake.

I have had encounters where the tip given was a good bit extravagent. If the gentlemen had taken time to place the money in an envelope I do typically assume that he took the time to count out the money that was placed inside. However, if it is my first time seeing someone and a tip seemed a little too much, I would be quick to double check and make sure that is what they intended to leave.

Hobbying is certainly a very lucrative business so it would be sad to see someone take advantage of that!
Deznuttz's Avatar
Any update? Did she do the right thing and return the money? If she did I think that would show she is a trustworthy provider.
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  • ztonk
  • 10-05-2015, 06:31 PM
Any update? Originally Posted by Deznuttz
Here's the alert thread on Tammie85.

ztonk
Samcro84's Avatar
Not sure the right thing. You gave her an envelop with money in it, transaction done.

How many of you would not check an envelop you got from the bank? Wow!! I always check never trust anyone.

Think you are out of luck.

Sam
Iron Butterfly's Avatar
My bank always counts the cash in front of me, then gives it to me. I then request an envelope and put it in myself, some times multipil envelops so I can divide it. Plus I get a statement with that too, not sure how this can happen, or did?

IB
Cat in the Hat's Avatar
I have a totally different experience with 3 different banks I deal with. They all use those machines, run it through there and then either hand it to me or ask if I want an envelope. That old tradition of counting it out does seem to be fading away with some establishments.
My bank uses the machine and then I have the cashier count it in front of me, before sealing it in an envelop.