Thought's on a SD/SB Arrangement??.....

Money and a fool soon part. Originally Posted by LexusLover

Been there and done that.

Most sugar daddy's are just tricks who don't want to cough up the hourly rate.
They want more.... for less.

Not saying that there's no middle ground, where you both could "win"-
however, from this lady's perspective;
You have to be a lot more careful with sugardaddies-
they are not as forthcoming with "personal info" (in other words, lack of screening; any one of them could be a Jeffrey Dauhmer; or lesser evil; a tightwad asking for a "test-drive"... yuck.) Many want "exclusivity"/monogamy (and most likely BBFS... Ijs, to be honest.)
(HEH.) Which exclusivity is fair if they can and WILL pay to maintain you in completeness- alas, most, will not.
But.... there are those Diamonds in the Mud.... if you can find them;
But they are like finding a needle in a haystack!
I have heard once said, "Don't look for sugar daddies, they will find YOU."

GOODLUCK on your Sugar Adventures!

,^^^^ Ditto.
Foxy got real!
I'm starting to like this girl!

,^^^^ Ditto.
Foxy got real!
I'm starting to like this girl! Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Thanks.
Mostly I get backlash instead of love for being real.... but you know how it goes!

I keep it 💯

Paying ahead for something you haven't received will probably have
about a 90% failure rate or close to it.

Much the same as paying ahead for a session with a provider.

The SB thing has a lot of scammers and girls trying to make a career
out of being a professional SB, some guys get lucky, and many will
embellish their SB experience stories because it makes them sound
like the man

Just another pay for play, nothing overly special and will cost you
just like any other.

Like being stuck with an SO but not quite as bad LOL Originally Posted by bojulay

This is the thought I had, while i would love to have the to have a little 19year old on stand by and I love spending money on girls-I could see how easily it would be o get screwed over

Been there and done that. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Wolfster went through a similar situation that was on the neg side - so he got a look at the cons.

Most sugar daddy's are just tricks who don't want to cough up the hourly rate.
They want more.... for less.

Not saying that there's no middle ground, where you both could "win"-
however, from this lady's perspective;
You have to be a lot more careful with sugardaddies-
they are not as forthcoming with "personal info" (in other words, lack of screening; any one of them could be a Jeffrey Dauhmer; or lesser evil; a tightwad asking for a "test-drive"... yuck.) Many want "exclusivity"/monogamy (and most likely BBFS... Ijs, to be honest.)
(HEH.) Which exclusivity is fair if they can and WILL pay to maintain you in completeness- alas, most, will not.
But.... there are those Diamonds in the Mud.... if you can find them;
But they are like finding a needle in a haystack!
I have heard once said, "Don't look for sugar daddies, they will find YOU."

GOODLUCK on your Sugar Adventures! Originally Posted by FoxyNC

Foxy made a point I forgot and another girl said earlier - yes - you can find he diamond in the rough and there are those ab relationships that work. Anything is possible in this world. But it seems like those types are few and far between. But to find the treasure you gotta look for it - so the choice is yours.

Most sugar daddy's are just tricks who don't want to cough up the hourly rate.
They want more.... for less.

Not saying that there's no middle ground, where you both could "win"-
however, from this lady's perspective;
You have to be a lot more careful with sugardaddies-
they are not as forthcoming with "personal info" (in other words, lack of screening; any one of them could be a Jeffrey Dauhmer; or lesser evil; a tightwad asking for a "test-drive"... yuck.) Many want "exclusivity"/monogamy (and most likely BBFS... Ijs, to be honest.)
(HEH.) Which exclusivity is fair if they can and WILL pay to maintain you in completeness- alas, most, will not.
But.... there are those Diamonds in the Mud.... if you can find them;
But they are like finding a needle in a haystack!
I have heard once said, "Don't look for sugar daddies, they will find YOU."

GOODLUCK on your Sugar Adventures! Originally Posted by FoxyNC

Well said..

Mine has worked out very, very good for the both of us. But, thank you for asking.

It truly comes down to the personalities & understanding of the people involved..

@ Queen Pinky ... I really dig your new look : )

Thanks.
Mostly I get backlash instead of love for being real.... but you know how it goes!

I keep it 💯

Originally Posted by FoxyNC

I like ladies that keep it real. I think you are awesome : )

Before joining here, I was seeing a provider on a regular basis. Exclusively. She's the one that brought up just giving her a monthly allowance that would pay het rent and some coin to play with. When I mentioned longer sessions without the damn timer going off, maybe an overnight once a month. She corrected me saying I would still be getting the same amount of time, just pay for it all at once. That's when I joined Eccie and started seeking variety.
She might be a good sugar baby, but doesn't know how to close a business deal.

I am almost exclusively into sd/sb arrangements. Well, exclusive apart from the fact that I have 4 on the go at present.

But I have had a lot of disappointments too. But I don't mind that, because when I am looking I know there are plenty of 18-25 yr old incredibly good looking girls who enjoy time together and aren't too greedy.

First rule, make sure she has a job or goes to college or something. You don't want a drama queen who can't pay rent and the car breaks down every month or gets towed.

Plus, the quiet ones can be the ones who most enjoy 4 hours of constant fucking.

I like Spanish girls and ebony girls, I now have a sb who is African but brought up in Barcelona. She tires me out

ps my avatar girl was a provider but then became exclusive to me and then a sb. Sadly she has had a lot of medical problems the last ten years.

Most sugar daddy's are just tricks who don't want to cough up the hourly rate.
They want more.... for less. Originally Posted by FoxyNC

Can't say it any better than that especially that last part.