How has Sex changed for you since you first started hobbying?

There are all types of ladies that offer other activities to experience, even the 120lb 20yo spinners can show you a new trick or two! IJS


Hell I get hassled becouse I like eating pussy, just my thing and to each his own.

IB

Since I began many moons ago T levels have decreased a bit so while I'm still quite capable I can take it or leave it. The hobby doesn't hold nearly as much sway over me. The big head now does much more thinking before taking the plunge.

For me, it seems to be about the excitement of meeting and getting to know (sexually) someone new. I have several friends-with-benefits in my normal life that I can and do enjoy some great sex with, but I'm a bit shy about making new friends and meeting new people in the real world, and so being in a community like this has made it possible for me to explore and expand a more diverse set of sexual interests.

One thing I will say is that having taken an over three year break from the hobby my desire is as strong or even stronger then when I first started. I am more excited about an up and coming date. Play is really getting fun as I have I new fresh outlook on the hobby. My decisions are more spontaneous and my choices are quit different then the first romp here.
If some of you long timers that have been hobbying week in and week out for a decade took a break you would see the hobby in a whole new light, and I would hope for the better, man I'm really liking this tour.

IB

Since I began many moons ago T levels have decreased a bit so while I'm still quite capable I can take it or leave it. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

Talk to your doctor... they have ways of fixing that now I hear.

z

Since I began many moons ago T levels have decreased a bit so while I'm still quite capable I can take it or leave it. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

Talk to your doctor... they have ways of fixing that now I hear.

z Originally Posted by ztonk

Just go to TotalNutrition and ask for "The Man Stack." Exercise daily and you should be ok


http://totalnutritionaustin.com/the-man-stack/

Just go to TotalNutrition and ask for "The Man Stack." Exercise daily and you should be ok


http://totalnutritionaustin.com/the-man-stack/ Originally Posted by Little Monster

Good advise LM, since I started working out I'm much stronger sexually, but haven't tried the "man-stack", might just try it, thanks.

IB

There are all types of ladies that offer other activities to experience, even the 120lb 20yo spinners can show you a new trick or two! IJS


Hell I get hassled becouse I like eating pussy, just my thing and to each his own.

IB Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

Learn to tap into the semi pro and curious young ones and DATY talents are much more appreciated

The hobby let me enjoy a variety and experience a lot of beautiful young ladies and the extra attention I received led to an increase in confidence and led me to develop a game that landed multiple young ladies in bed for little to nothing at all.

I can count, on one hand, the guys I've slept with for free in the last 4 years since starting the hobby. I'm a fucking prude in the real world. 4 out of 5 of those free guys were hobbyist's I either really cared about or just really loved fucking.

I think providing can be a fetish in and of itself. I know it is for me.

Good advise LM, since I started working out I'm much stronger sexually, but haven't tried the "man-stack", might just try it, thanks.

IB Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

LMAO!!
you might just try the "man stack"
sounds like your prepping for a gay gangbang

Well, I have been in this hobby since around 1985 or so. I will list the things that seem to have changed during that time for me. Not all sexual exactly but changes to the hobby none the less.
1. Blowjobs are much different. When I started if you attempted to get a DT most girls would have been pissed. Only porn stars did it back in the day.
2. It is now normal for ladies and gents to trim their genitalia. When I first started full bush was the norm.
3. The decline of the SW. Used to be many more out there.
4. DATO was not heard of when I started.
5. Condom use is much more present. BBFS was pretty common back in the day.
6. Degradation play I feel is much more common than when I first started.
7. I never heard of multiples until the mid 90s

I realize some of these may just be my perceptions and others may have had different experiences. Those are just how I see it.

I can count, on one hand, the guys I've slept with for free in the last 4 years since starting the hobby. I'm a fucking prude in the real world. 4 out of 5 of those free guys were hobbyist's I either really cared about or just really loved fucking.

I think providing can be a fetish in and of itself. I know it is for me. Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

I agree.... I get so turned on by being a provider, in any capacity. It's actually become quite a stress reliever.. "Oh today is my work day... I've been waiting for this!" lol

I have also noticed that clients tend to appreciate you more than "fwbs". Which I still had when I first started providing but not anymore. Hmm. Perhaps this could more or less be a jaded side effect of the biz/self-fulfilling prophecy, but still makes good sense. I feel like if you begin to demand a certain level of appreciation because you're so accustomed (spoiled) by your regular clients then why not just keep it restricted to them? Makes sense to me ;p

Exactly! I'm a happy camper when I get to see my regulars! Great sex. Great money. I feel very comfortable with them and I actually really like fucking & talking to them!! Win. Win.

The hobby helped me stop caring about how i looked and if she liked me.

Of course i want RW women to like me so they come home with me but im not worried about being perfect anymore and im much more comfortable with rejection and what the hobby has taught me so well is that you don't click with everyone and thats OK.

I now go out with a laissez–faire attitude and amazingly im way more successful at meeting people then when i spent an hour grooming, worrying about what I wore and made sure I had a few talking points.

If I told you, you wouldn't believe me.