i have a mommy tummy and its bad enough at times not all the time, that i am insecure about it. gents come and visit and say " oh, you have a mommy tummy? " so because of the tone of how the comment came out. i tend to wear cover up garments or hide my tummy.
i appreciate the compassionate men that i have met that see my mommy tummy for what it is. a woman's body, a beautiful body that has carried life ;-)