I think what he's saying is that she is lucky she never got seriously injured. Unless you have a chaperone or a dungeon monitor present it just isn't completely safe for a submissive to put herself in such a vulnerable spot with strangers. She did it and was fine. I accept the risks and choose to still do it.
Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
I looked around fetlife for a while when someone reviewed Carol from the Cuse. It didn't make alot of sense to me. Everyone is looking for someone who is trained and experienced. Why would that matter? If you are trained to be and act a certain way then its really kind of meaningless as far as I can see.Shouldn't everyone be what they want to be and act how they want to act? Forget experience and training tell me what you want and I will tell you what i want and see if its what you are looking for.
If everyone has the same training and acts the same then they are basically just actors. Thats what i got out of it anyway.
As for the safety. I understand the safety issue but if you are with someone crazy and mean enough to abuse someone beyond their consent, does it really make that much of a difference whether its in an S and M setting or a normal hookup? You are in danger either way.