When I see a girl, I treat it like I was actually going on a real date. I'm showered, cleaned, and I've come to the point where I shave down there once a week or once every two weeks. That way there is no mess. I've also found that if you treat a lady like a lady, you are going to get much more than you would if you treat her like a piece of meat. At this point, I've pretty much written off girls who won't do a BBBJ. I will spoil girls who know what customer service really means