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This is the stickied newbie friendly list in the ISO forum. ECCIE doesn't allow editing OPs after an hour, so you'll be wanting to look near the end of that thread for the most recent list.
Since you are a newbie, you'll need to get screened. For context to you, newbie-friendly provider means that the provider is willing to assume the risk of screening you to the best of her ability to insure that you're not a cop, and that she's willing to take one for the team in case you're a Chris Brown wannabe.
Providers who are not-newbie friendly are those that aren't willing to go through the hassle of screening someone, or who are unwilling to take on the risk (above) of seeing an un-established client. Most providers require 2-3 references. Once you have SUCCESSFULLY met with a newbie friendly provider, request to use her as a reference. Rinse and repeat 2-3 times. Then, when you wish to see a non-newbie friendly provider, provide the name and contact information (e-mail, sometimes phone number, or P411, of ECCIE handle) to the provider you wish to see. She'll reach out to your references, verify that you are who you say you are, that you're safe to see (not a cop, not a thug, not a cheat), and you're in the winner's circle!
I used Urban Dictionary heavily when I started, but it's lacking in some hobby terms. Bookmark this Acronyms List instead; it will serve you well.
Finally, and unfortunately - understand that the community you're joining is the cesspit of humanity. There are gems worth reading, experiences to share, and lessons to take, but your search for them will be through infested mud populated by rabid leeches who's sole visceral pleasure lies in their unmoderated outpouring of hate. Keep this in the back of your mind; you'll be trolled, shocked, outraged - take nothing to heart, nothing personally, and remember that the purpose of ECCIE is to get laid - don't be distracted by the drama.
Happy hunting!
Originally Posted by TravelingGentleman
Sir, you are indeed a gentleman. You stand correct just as your name shows, which is very admirable. I completely feel for all of your instructions and information. I shall take your words into account throughout my experience in this community.
Thanks and hope to see you around on here.