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Very well said, BCG.

It's refreshing to see that our perspective is understood...

Let’s assume for a minute the ladies are upset about no shows. Don’t believe they ever clearly stated the issue.

So you came to town advertising on the local board full of hh guys and negotiators.

Without warning a certainly lady or ladies show up from Florida whose group always has stellar reviews. Now what do you think your hh clients are going to do?

Not much different than pre-booking with a couple guys then not showing up because you didn’t fill your dance card. Sure we are disappointed, but we don’t trash all the providers because we understand it’s a business.

When you offer discount (hh) service, your going to get certain clients who aren’t interested in the event only the results.

There are great hobbyist here, you just attracted the wrong ones

Strange if you watch the action on P411, you’ll see the same ladies return fairly often to St. Louis, average to very up scale pricing and they don’t seem to have issues with us.

Sometimes I wonder who taught, or failed to teach, some people about fundamental manners and basic respect. To arrange an appointment and then pull a NSNC is inexcusable no matter who you are or who is expecting you. I always thought us folks with Midwest values would be ashamed to act like that. Frankly I'm embarrassed for y'all. (You know who you are)

While there is now more salt than pepper in my beard, I don't buy the argument that this is just an "old fashioned" point of view.

If you do this sh*t - EVER - knock it off.

My last 5 "dates" that occurred over the span of about 10 days earlier this month:

#1: When I did a courtesy check-in the night before, Provider #1 said; "Something came up, I'm not coming at the time I said". When was she going to tell me if I had not checked in? When I showed up? BTW, if I would had done that, I would have been subject to her "Cancellation Policy". History: I've seen her about 8-10 times over span of couple of years (former ATF Traveler). I [used to] schedule every time she comes to town. Future: Doubtful

#2: Provider #2: I showed 20 minutes early, texted her telling her I was early and whenever she was ready, so was I. No reply. 5 minutes after scheduled time, I texted "<her name>?" ans: "I need 10 min" Bottom line: she kept me waiting 20 minutes because another dude was in room. How disrespectful is that? History: I saw her weekly for about a year (former ATF); "lent" her money several times when she was in need. Future: Doubtful.

#3: Had a great time with Provider #3 Lea Madisson. History: I've been seeing her for several years, and she has been 100% reliable. Future: Party Time!

#4: Made a 2 hr first date with Provider #4 back in January for a November date. In the meantime, she moved to Chicago from Cincy and her hourly rate doubled. November came and went, and I never heard a thing. Then mid-December she emails me: "We still on for the 10th?" WTF? I replied that since I hadn't heard anything from her when she was SUPPOSED to be here, and her rate had doubled since the time of my booking, I had made other plans. She replied that since I was "last minute cancelling", I was subject to her "Cancellation Policy", I owed her 50% ($400), and gave me the address to send it. I replied that if she would abide by our original agreement, I would see her at her new choice of times...she was fine with that. Then 90 fucking minutes before date, she cancels with a "headache". When I comically point out the irony of her "cancellation policy" being a one-way street, she "blocks" and "blacklists" me, to which I sent her a 2-word reply. History: None. Future: None.

#5: Provider #5 cancels at 7:30 am for an 11:30 am date; "Mother Nature came calling." Whatever. History: None. Future: Possibly.

Now none of these women are Backpage girls: the average hourly rate of the 5 is $342.

So lecture me again about "perspective".

When I comically point out the irony of her "cancellation policy" being a one-way street,.. Originally Posted by TonyDucks

I was NCNS'd by Maclyn Smith last month, her cancellation policy is if you cancel within 72 hrs she gets 50%, if you cancel within 24 hrs she gets 100%. Of course when she goes silent and NCNS the street is one way as you point out. It would be great if they hold themselves to the same standard they expect of others.

I have never NCNS'd any provider and only had to cancel on one provider, but gave her 3 days notice.

I have double booked on accident. My policy is if I mess up you get a hefty discount if you rebook. After all it was MY fault.

If you NSNC your on the no show list and won't get a second chance. I tried giving second chances to 4 clients only to have them pull the same NSNC again.