How has the hobby world affected your real world family relationships?

yes I do know some gals in this biz who have been victims of their past....the key to making life good is to "not live in the past/realize your worth/and make life what you want it to be"!!!

Its allowed me an amazing amount of freedom and ability to do whatever I want..xoxo
Love it Originally Posted by CashmereLove

What she said.

One area of one's life that certainly improves is the social aspect, you do ended up meeting a lot of great people

I do it because I can't even pay my SO to give me a BJ.

S/o doesn't know, my close friends do. Actually they are a few members here so it's makes guys night pretty fun! If she were to find out it would be devastating to her but I'm 100% prepared to deal with it. The hobby keeps me grounded and stress free. I never chose the hobby over family time so it has no effect whatsoever.

I am divorced so I don't have that problem. And my son who lives with my ex is certainly happy to see his dad always so relaxed and satisfied....

Eccie keeps me out of those stupid singles bars and I have met some blazing hot gals along the way.

My SO used to give head and we had great sex but after a couple kids well no more head and I gotta practically beg at times -- been seeing providers since 2010 and it's been good and bad --really fucks with my head at times (both) and I know it's wrong--it would kill my SO and break my marriage if I ever got caught. I've taken plenty of risks over the years and was very active in 2012-1014 but I've slowed a lot and it's a good thing --it's an addiction in many ways and I have met a lot of ladies who are in bad situations and do this to survive also some nice girls who were A+ or seemed to be--then there's those who are definitely supporting their own habit-- some scary habits (sad) -- now I'm here more for the reading (living a lot vicariously thru reviews ) --I see a provider ,maybe once a month- and even then it's been mostly bbbj's only --

I not sure why you seem to take offense to me having morals. I see nothing wrong with hobbying as long as it does not negatively affect your family. I use prostitutes and strippers but I'm very vigilant about keeping this hobby out of my public and professional life. I'm not married yet nor do I have kids so my risk is minimal compared to many here.

There are valid reasons for a woman to turn tricks perhaps it enables her to afford better medical treatment for a loved one, the examples can be numerous.

Perhaps some are more concerned about themselves which does much to explain broken and dysfunctional family lives. Originally Posted by Sheep Herder

When you became a whore you became a 2nd class citizen, the overwhelming majority looks down on whores and y'all are not respected in society we give y'all more respect than y'all are entitled already, now you want more....

Your trying to quit whoring but have not been able to fully do it. I have to wonder what kind of loser in a tax free business charging several hundred dollars an hour can't quit after a few years as a multi millionaire. Your therapist can't fix stupid so quit wasting your money.

I bet fewer than ten percent ever overcome being a whore and it sounds like your one of the losers in the 90 percent category.

Congrats to those of you that suck dick a few years make millions and move on I like doing business with that kind.

However this is just a broken whore whose soul got consumed by the industry and now your hanging around whining the we fucked up your head.

Go on and leave your kinda like road kill on the highway the way you tell it. Originally Posted by Sheep Herder

Negro whores! Is it offensive?

I was talking to a business friend of mine and asked about the negro whore he brings with him on hunting trips he suddenly started talking like a big city yuppie and told me how offensive that was to call her that.

1st Martin Luther King used the negro word in his speech " I have a dream"

2nd there's the united negro college fund (somebody gonna tell me kids dont apply cause of an offensive name?)

3rd it's on the last U.S. Census bureau questionnaire.

If the feds, mlk and the negroes themselves use it I see no reason why the word is offensive.

Why would there be anything wrong referring to them as negro whores? Originally Posted by Sheep Herder

^ and your point is.... I called out an old broken down old whore for crying about what she reduced herself too. Whores are 2nd class citizens, a known whore can't be a Girl Scout troop leader. Whores have to be discreet and lie, they can't rent an apartment and tell the mgmt they are whores needing a place to turn tricks and let's not forget it's against the law.

Negro whores is not offensive and there's nothing wrong with you if your a negro lover!!!(just don't let her volunteer with the Girl Scouts lol)

Tell her to go help the Boy Scouts earn a badge haha

.....Whores are 2nd class citizens, a known whore can't be a Girl Scout troop leader..... Originally Posted by Sheep Herder

Christians were also 2nd class citizens and despised in the Roman Empire. You can't just just go by what some a**hole is thinking about you. Sheep Herder is probably also the most despised individual on this board and he doesn't give a f*** either.

I'm not seeing a difference in our ranks. Providers are selling a service. Clients are buying that service. Both equally guilty. Can't have one without the other. Does the OP really expect anyone on here to say "I would just love to get caught, it would be such a wonderful thing" or "my SO would be so happy to hear this is what I do with my money"?

Most important question facing all of us should be why does Sheepfucker get any responses to any posts ever?

Its allowed me an amazing amount of freedom and ability to do whatever I want..xoxo
Love it! Originally Posted by CashmereLove

I can do what I want/when I want and go where I want....I luv being able to go somewhere and basically "pay for my vacation"
and the ones in my family who need to know,know....and they accept it. Originally Posted by DallasRain

How wonderful that a troll started a no win piss & blame contest,
but the ladies turned it around for some useful insight and reflection.

You girls beat the troll !

My kids are grown so my life is centered around me..everyone who is important knows what i do.

But...Sheep,basically what your saying and what your meaning are 2 different things...lmao
It gives you pleasure to be a total dick and put others down. I wish I hadnt evn responded to this thread because as I look at you prior posts I know who you are. Fuck off Originally Posted by CashmereLove

Well said!!

Just getting started. i often wonder do I have a problem or will I develop one.