P411 Okays

When an out of towner contacts me, one of the things I look at is the provider herself. How many OKs has she given? how many recent reviews does she have on here or TER? when was her last log in on p411? If she's not active, I don't feel comfortable using her.

Recent is always better and is important. Lots of things can happen in a year or two. I'd say it's kind of like the same reason why guys prefer recent pics in our showcase ;-)

As long as he passes the screening I have no problem seeing guys not from here...have fun hun I'll miss you!

Just curious, why does it matter how recent the OK is? Let's say in the last 3 months vs. 2 or 3 years? Do a significant number of guys really go from "normal" to BSC in 6 months?

Also, how are we supposed to know who you consider a reliable provider that you trust? I don't see many ladies publishing a list of preferred references (other than maybe their doubles partners). There are some providers who are obviously well-known, but that is a small fraction of the total potential references or OK's. Originally Posted by billw1032

Many times a provider who gave you an OK a couple of years ago may not be providing as the window of a provider is very small. Unfortunately, the window does not even open for a few ladies wanting to get in the business, mainly due to their lack of TCB/BCD skills coupled with their donation levels that want to start in and their lack of IOP. The window of some providers should have been shut a while ago, but I digress. Having provider OKs, but the most recent one was over 2 years ago and the provider can be reached for a reference, she may not even remember the session since it was so long ago.

A p411 OK is suppose to consist of the hobbyist was respectful to the provider's time and person, had clean hygiene and had the correct donation. Some providers have additional rules for giving an OK such as the hobbyist has to review her, and it better be a good review, or other bullshit that they require and should not matter when giving OKs.

As long as he passes the screening I have no problem seeing guys not from here...have fun hun I'll miss you! Originally Posted by Jessika Sweetz

Awwwe shucks, you gals are just too sweet! Keep this up and I may almost halfway believe you one of these days, lol! Alas, this trip is more business than pleasure. The fun will probably be kept to a minimum.

Well, this was educational for me. I almost never ask for OKs - I don't have a large number but more than most thresholds I've seen so just didn't bother asking for them any more. I guess I've just been lucky to not be turned down over the fact most of my OKs are >1 year old. Looking at my list of OKs I see several of the gals have 'retired'.

Have fun out there Kong!

I think you should be perfectly fine with the Okays that I know you have. We are recent and easily searchable via p411, websites and Eccie.

Be sure to give the lady as much notice as possible.

You are a gentleman and your messages are always sweet so, just keep that up and I believe you that won't have any issues.

Save some of that chocolate for me!

I think you should be perfectly fine with the Okays that I know you have. We are recent and easily searchable via p411, websites and Eccie.

Be sure to give the lady as much notice as possible.

You are a gentleman and your messages are always sweet so, just keep that up and I believe you that won't have any issues.

Save some of that chocolate for me! Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Lol, will do babe!

DK ill miss your yummy self. And i want pictures too and stories.

DK ill miss your yummy self. And i want pictures too and stories. Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

Thank you SP! I'll see what I can do! 😊

You can never have too many okays

FUCK YA!!!!!!!!!!!!
SLUTS UNITED!!!!!!!!!!!

I try not to have too many "profiles" out there but I have stuck with a combination of Eccie and P411. Eccie is great for Texas and reviews but once I ventured out of the state its hit or miss. I like P411 but I really don't think it has assisted in getting me any more action that I can't get already on Eccie. TER seems to have a lot of business in the places I have been but I don't have a TER account.

I have 67 okays on P411 (and a lot of recent ones) but yet I have still been asked for references. That defeats the whole point of me getting on P411--to bypass screening. I have never been fond of the idea of giving out a providers number to another provider--but thats just me.

Back on topic though: You should be okay Darkey but being an out of towner may be a problem.

You can never have too many okays

FUCK YA!!!!!!!!!!!!
SLUTS UNITED!!!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by daaaaaman

NOBODY has more than you!!!!!!!!! lol

Im only at 6 but i just opened my acct a month ago