Tips or Gifts.......

Not sure Paul.
Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Hang on. I'll roll over and ask her

Perfect!

Kay-Kay when Paul is done push him off the top of you and answer the mystery please.

Hang on. I'll roll over and ask her Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

You starting in on Culvr already?

elg....

You starting in on Culvr already?

elg.... Originally Posted by elghund

Not sure what that means. She can let anybody she wants roll off her. That's the business she's in.

Kay-Kay when Paul is done push him off the top of you and answer the mystery please. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Sorry... got distracted... what was the question???

I don't think that gifts are creepy or crossing any boundaries. I have very friendly relationships with some clients. I do think that a gift is more personal than a tip. Either are never expected but always appreciated.

I have never given a gift and very rarely tip. A couple times I have been pressured to give a tip and have caved. I set a limit for myself on how much I can justify spending on this stuff. Could I spend more sure, can I justify it no.

So its simple for me. If I like seeing a provider then she will make alot of money off me in the future because I usually only see one provider until things go south. So no need for a tip. If I don't like her no need to tip. And iI will be damned if I go over my budget and not be able to hobby as much as i want because I am giving out tips.


Did someone really post that he is of the theory that we are paying providers for their time and not their activities?

I don't think that gifts are creepy or crossing any boundaries. I have very friendly relationships with some clients. I do think that a gift is more personal than a tip. Either are never expected but always appreciated. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

If someone gives you something for nothing I'm imagining you'd take it. From what I can gather the giving of gifts and tips and all of this unnecessary generosity ultimately results in a belief, on some poor deluded schmuck's part, that what has taken place is something other than a business transaction.

I guess this is where quite a few of the disputes, dramatics, and hard feelings originate?

I have never given a gift and very rarely tip. A couple times I have been pressured to give a tip and have caved. I set a limit for myself on how much I can justify spending on this stuff. Could I spend more sure, can I justify it no.

So its simple for me. If I like seeing a provider then she will make alot of money off me in the future because I usually only see one provider until things go south. So no need for a tip. If I don't like her no need to tip. And iI will be damned if I go over my budget and not be able to hobby as much as i want because I am giving out tips.


Did someone really post that he is of the theory that we are paying providers for their time and not their activities? Originally Posted by brianjackson

Bulletproof post. Excellent.

You starting in on Culvr already?

elg.... Originally Posted by elghund

Not sure what that means. She can let anybody she wants roll off her. That's the business she's in. Originally Posted by cculvr69

Ummmm.... if you really "weren't sure what that means"....
THAT was one helluva guess!!!
Nice job Culver.

Ummmm.... if you really "weren't sure what that means"....
THAT was one helluva guess!!!
Nice job Culver. Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Did you get a degree in Asshat, or does that come naturally for you. I'm betting on the latter.

I see one lady and have for nearly 4 years. I tip and give her gifts. I enjoy it. And I have received gifts and treats from her. We have a nice business relationship and I have never
been turned down or put on hold.

Did you get a degree in Asshat, or does that come naturally for you. I'm betting on the latter. Originally Posted by cculvr69

Seems like you keep having these cunty spells... I doubt it's cooties... that wasn't one of the side effects I had... but you might want to get that checked out....

Did you get a degree in Asshat, or does that come naturally for you. I'm betting on the latter. Originally Posted by cculvr69

Its the latter culv.