Non Private Incall Best Options & Practices & NO NOs.

EW, I actually didn't consider outside cameras & nosy maintenance guys. I just thought everyones comings & goings would be less scruitized. Even extremely nice hotel front desks have a eye on who comes in and out on the lobby. That does make every one safer. However, as the article honey rose posted, people may be more observant now and want to save the day.

I really think truly independent providers in those nicer hotels don't have to worry.

Now on the flip side of my preference, an outside room does make it easier for your wife's PI to take a snapshot of you leaving the room. Where as once you go into the lobby, there is no telling which room you're going to. Originally Posted by grean

I used to travel quite a bit and just don't do it any longer ... but the only type of lobby that bothers me are those smallish ones that sometimes, I'll see in extended stay places.

Those are the places that are observant. Otherwise, even in the slower hotels, if it's something like a Weston or a Marriot, I just don't see an issue at all walking through the lobby.

And what's the issue with not seeing an elevator and having to ask? Often, I don't. That's why the front desk is in the front. No need to explain WHY you're asking. When I valet park my car, and if the guy asks how long I'll be staying, I'll say an hour. Or three.

I don't go into a diatribe, or start making excuses, on why I'm staying there for a short time. Perhaps I'm meeting someone for a drink? Lunch? A snack in their room? grin None of their business. Answer lightly, smile, and go about your business of getting some pleasure.

For a long time, I wanted to make Austin my second home and that's where I learned about the hotels with the outside entrance. Ladies were having real issues in north Austin at those places.

This is very cheap advice, but what I tell my friends is that you have to come up with something, a philosophy, that works for you in this world.

If you don't like a certain type of incall location, then don't go there. If something sounds fishy over the phone, then don't set up an appointment.

In other words, nearly all of us (I know that the ladies do this or should) have in their minds what works for them and what does not. And it's OK to ask what works for others. I do that!

As an example, there is this other topic, in Houston, that some guy is acting rather dumb (imo) and stating things that just aren't true. For ME. For him, it could be that using Altoids on/in a woman's pussy is the greatest thing in the world.

If a man came at me with hot cinnamon peppermint candy to put inside/around my private areas, I'd say no. Makes me cringe to think about it while writing this response. But for his lovers? Maybe it's the most pleasurable sensation but I highly doubt it, for most people.

So it's important to be true to yourself. We are all different with our cravings and desires. Do what makes you comfortable. And than the rest generally works out.

Just my thoughts on it.

Warm regards,
Elisabeth

I do like hotels that are also popular drinking holes or at least have lots of traffic because if the bar. I have meet a lady there before the session for drinks too. The liquid courage made any concerns go away as quickly as the primary concern of the evening started to rise.

So actually the "outies" are No No's

I like to choose higher end business hotels. The staff pays no attention to single men who act like they belong. Elevator instructions are a must.

Another thing I do is ask for two keys and state that my husband will be joining me later. This explains why a man is at my door if they happen to notice. Now this won't help disguise high volume traffic but works great for low volume ladies. Also I wouldn't worry about having to knock on a door. People forget their keys all the time.

It always helps to be low volume, that doesn't drag attention to your room. As stated above, directions to the elevator and inform him not to knock on the door helps. I just open when I see him.

To be honest, I'm not really comfortable hobbying in hotels so I'd see maximum two people in a day ( allow hours in between). Multiple hours rendezvous are better.

I am fine doing outcalls to hotels .

Great timing for this topic. I just saw that January 12th Homeland Security issued tips for hotel staff to detect sex trafficking.

http://reason.com/blog/2016/01/12/ho...hotel-staff-to

These are hints for the providers more than the hobbyists, but you could give your lady friend a heads-up to not put out the "Do Not Disturb" sign for example.

For the hobbyist, I'd suggest carrying a briefcase when you visit a hotel and a clipboard when you visit an apartment. It looks so official! Originally Posted by HoneyRose

That article is scary. I fit several of those criteria when I travel - multiple computers and phones, leaving the do-not-disturb sign out, few personal possessions, refusing cleaning.
This seems like a big violation of privacy, which is one reason I usually refuse cleaning service most of the time.

Basically trexxxs

just like the phone data monitoring by the NSA, its a huge overreach with a net that will catch more dolphins than tuna.

I'll take my back pack in with me, I feel like I blend more if I have a bag. "I'm sure it's only in my head"

Even if I hobby at an open hotel like Omni, I carry brefcase. But when hobbling in smaller hotels, I prefer ones that are outside, so you don't have to parade past front desk...even if it's like I own the place.

Even if I hobby at an open hotel like Omni, I carry brefcase. But when hobbling in smaller hotels, I prefer ones that are outside, so you don't have to parade past front desk...even if it's like I own the place. Originally Posted by Always Last

I think we've reversed my opinion and outside places may have more dangers than I thought originally.

I'm like you, I don't like going past the front desk. However, in weighing risks and benefits the front desk seems less problematic.