Tired of rumors

No bbfs...and no bb greek Originally Posted by babykins78

Okay. That makes sense.

Some people's stupidity surprise me. I forget that some see condoms solely as tools for birth control and never think of them as a barrier against disease.

Who in their right mind thinks it is okay to go bareback inside someone else's asshole?

This isn't a rant against you, BK. It's just an observation about the BB seekers out there.

LOL Simon. ..i don't need the the condoms for birth control. ...i have other forms...i use condoms because I don't want an std hiv or any other coodies someone can give me!!!!

I think you are missing the hobbyist part in this. He didn't need to bring the fact he wants bbfs because other providers said you do. He could have just asked. You declined. And that's it. There was motive.

Rumors are used by those who have no life and low self esteem. I say name the Hobbyist who messaged you this rumor. Then he can name the providers spreading the rumors. It's simple. Until the sources are made responsible for there comments. Then this Merry-Go-Round of accusations will continue. At the same time. Who cares what others say. You know the truth. Don't give them power over you.

I think you are missing the hobbyist part in this. He didn't need to bring the fact he wants bbfs because other providers said you do. He could have just asked. You declined. And that's it. There was motive.

Rumors are used by those who have no life and low self esteem. I say name the Hobbyist who messaged you this rumor. Then he can name the providers spreading the rumors. It's simple. Until the sources are made responsible for there comments. Then this Merry-Go-Round of accusations will continue. At the same time. Who cares what others say. You know the truth. Don't give them power over you. Originally Posted by big35hurt

Beat me to it BH.

I would have immediately called out the Hobbyist to give up the names of these Providers who allegedly stated such.

If he doesn't name them, I would squarely think he is trying to ask for BB. He should just outright ask if you do if he is looking for such. Nothing wrong in asking. It is chickenshit to try to dance around the issue by just trying you to admit if without asking.

If he does supply the names, it would be up to you to determine the validity of what he said.

With that done, you'd at least know where the guilty party lies.

The gentleman who messaged me was not looking for bbfs....he was concerned about my saftey and was very kind...no need to call him out

Suggest BK place the No BBFS / BB Greek in her signature.

Shame that she have to consider this option but it may help deter those who are wondering.

SF

The gentleman who messaged me was not looking for bbfs....he was concerned about my saftey and was very kind...no need to call him out Originally Posted by babykins78

Sounds like he is willing to give you those names.
I'd proceed down that avenue.

If he is correct in his statement, up to you if you want to do a public shaming of said Providers. Lord knows there are guys that like a good cat fight on the boards.

I'd suggest you take it to the Ladies forum.

This is also posted in the ladies forum....and I don't need to publicly shame them...they know who they are....i don't play dirty...i posted this just to end the rumors

I can never understand when one Provider snipes at another.
It is hard enough business for y'all. And a Sister backstabbing another does absolutely no good for anyone.

I can never understand when one Provider snipes at another.
It is hard enough business for y'all. And a Sister backstabbing another does absolutely no good for anyone. Originally Posted by Precious_b

That was my point in this thread...it's not who did what to who...but that we need to stick together and have eachothers back....and of course I DON'T DO BB...lol

The gentleman who messaged me was not looking for bbfs....he was concerned about my saftey and was very kind...no need to call him out Originally Posted by babykins78

I read the first post wrong it seems. The way I read he was asking for BBFS since he heard from other ladies. I would hope he would let any other provider and hobbyist know who these ladies are. As I sure plenty of ladies and gents would like to know who is doing this. 1 lady is one thing. 3 is a whole different story. But what a gentleman to be concerned with your safety. But. If you don't do bbfs. Your safety was never comprimised.

Sounds like he is willing to give you those names.
I'd proceed down that avenue.

If he is correct in his statement, up to you if you want to do a public shaming of said Providers. Lord knows there are guys that like a good cat fight on the boards.

I'd suggest you take it to the Ladies forum. Originally Posted by Precious_b

It's not public shaming. It's finally stepping up and making sure this doesn't happen to others. I am sure guys like cat fights. I just think more would want to know who would do this. 1 is a coincidence. 3 maybe a conspiracy.

This is also posted in the ladies forum....and I don't need to publicly shame them...they know who they are....i don't play dirty...i posted this just to end the rumors Originally Posted by babykins78

As I said. You aren't shaming them. You are merely giving them an opportunity to defend themselves. If a hobbyist is accusing them of acussing you of bbfs. If you don't want to give that up. And he doesn't want to name them himself. This thread is useless since you have alerted the ladies already. For the guys it's just a tease.

BH...I don't feel this thread is a waste because it is letting everyone not just the women know that the rumors are not true....

BH...I don't feel this thread is a waste because it is letting everyone not just the women know that the rumors are not true.... Originally Posted by babykins78

I am guessing it's not a total waste. Some ladies maybe on notice now wondering if they are 1 of the 3. I think the hobbyist owes you those names if he is going to relay those accusations to you. What if it's a lady whom you trust? I just will never understand why a lady needs to try and hurt another ladies business. I think there is enough entertainment to go around. Haha

And then again I know I am not the only person wondering if this hobbyists claims are true. Unsubstantiated rumors are just that. It seems like you have a great following. I am wondering if this thread will have the reverse affect and you get approached more about it.

But like Camille said. "They can show up, pay the hourly rate, then find out for themselves it's a NO."

My question to "Mr. Nice Guy", would simply be; why in the hell is my name continually coming up in your discussions with other providers?

One, provider? well, maybe ...{shrugs}

Two providers? I'd raise an eyebrow and start honing-in on his angle.

Three providers??! NuhUhh!! I'd drop gloves, take a step back, and ask him WTF?

Does he ever even go BCD or does he just sit there and chat these gals up?

Because it certainly seems more than a bit peculiar to me that other provider's menus would be a hot topic of conversation with a provider much less THE hot topic of conversation with 3 different providers...I'm just saying...

I was wondering why you'd post this in both The CoEd & The Powder Room, and not just The Powder Room and it makes perfect sense now; Because there are gossiping bitches on both sides of that gender line.


Truth; If you're on a 'date' and your focus isn't right there and on each other, then you're doing it wrong.

Shit, $300 an hour is $5 a minute.

give that some thought and let that soak in a little while....

However you want to look at it;
More banging and blowing and less bitch-ass gossiping; that is the answer.

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