Personal information for screening

Dude take this how you will but this post really ISN'T the exact same question.

Your original thread was about provider X hounding you for screening info after you contacted her from an unknown (to her) phone number. She was stupid to answer your question without verifying who you were to begin with. You are stupid for not taking the easy route and just giving her your previous number from the get go. After both mistakes it just turned into a dumpster fire that shines an unflattering light on you for not just letting it go. It just comes off obsessive and immature. I am not saying that is who you are IRL but that is the impression these events are leaving on people.

As for the topic of THIS thread.....do what you are comfortable with if someone's screening isn't to your comfort then move on. The same goes for providers. If someone doesn't want to be screened to your comfort level then they aren't the client for you. I know I personally require a lot but I've never had anything but perfectly friendly, respectful, and wonderful times with newbies that went through my screening and I want to keep it that way.

Just my honest, unvarnished .02

.....do what you are comfortable with if someone's screening isn't to your comfort then move on. The same goes for providers. If someone doesn't want to be screened to your comfort level then they aren't the client for you. I know I personally require a lot but I've never had anything but perfectly friendly, respectful, and wonderful times with newbies that went through my screening and I want to keep it that way.

Just my honest, unvarnished .02 Originally Posted by SA Angel

well said!!

In my opinion, no matter how much information is asked, it comes down to how comfortable the gent is when it comes to providing it. If a provider becomes upset at his reluctance, it is guaranteed that he will NOT be comfortable providing that information now or ever.

Often times, a gent will decide not to provide me the information asked right away, but a few days later, even weeks, he returns and changes his mind. Rudeness causes loss of business.

I also find unnecessary for a gent to be rude when asked for information. That will automatically raise a red flag. He can politely decline or not reply. Makes no difference, but, as long as no one lost their cool, I always hope to earn his business in the future once he has the proper references.


Camille

I had a provider ask me for personal information for screening. She wanted me to text her a picture or ID claiming that a lot of girls screen using this method. Questions.

1 - do you ladies really ask for pictures or ID as a form of screening? if so how do you ladies know that the pic or ID is of the gent?

2- do you guys really send one if asked?

3- if I choose not to send does it warrant a nasty response from the provider? Because I chose safety over an appointment? Originally Posted by Satoshi

Yep sounds like butt hurt to me

For the record when i was a newbie i had a lady ask me to send a pic now i am single so it wasnt that big of a deal so i sent a selfie as for an ID pic i wouldnt do that...would i do it again knowing what i do now...probably not... luckily for me that provider turned out to be very cool and was one of my ATF's until she retired...so i guess i was luky in that regard...now i would just recommend getting p411 instead Originally Posted by a10bomb

A10, I remember the Jenifur being the first Provider asking me for an ID. She was kinda crazy with what she wanted but was great after the hoops were passed.

I think all comments to this thread should be posted to Austin. Not only is is between SA and Dallas, the replies seem to be more on point with the anal bruising of the OP. Originally Posted by Precious_b

Lol how about staying on topic? What I see so far are responses that say "don't give out personal info" while the Austin guys were too busy being white knights. There was only one response that made sense "ask the questions but don't name the provider". I'm testing that advice out. Originally Posted by Satoshi

Why don't you look closer to the responses and tell me where I didn't address the topic? Get some Prep H and it'll probably keep that throbbing from your rear from distracting you.

Originally Posted by Satoshi
... Provider in question claimed I was an idiot ... I'm challenging that claim.

Quote:
Originally posted by JohnnyYanks - By providing her with proof?

Dude. I am assuming you're a grown man (maybe that is wrong of me). Man up and make your own decision.
Not a chance in hell would I give my id to a lady ( maybe another bad assumption).
Btw. I think you have confirmed her assumptions

Don't give your personal info to whores. And don't be floating loans to them either Originally Posted by mayorcastro

Lol!

This is an experiment to see how the exact same questions when asked without naming the provider gets answered. Funny how your first response is what I'd expect but not now. You're proving my point. Originally Posted by Satoshi

But your not telling the whole story

I contacted Kendal this morning. I let her know that I've seen her before and I'm thinking about seeing her again but I needed to ask her a question. She answered it. Conversation should have been over. Quick and simple. However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from. I don't give her my handle because she didn't screen when I saw her so she wouldn't know it anyways. Instead I give her my name and description. She says that she's seen a few guys with that description and asks me for a picture. I tell her that I'm not going to send a pic from my hobby number. She then calls me an idiot because I wouldn't send her a pic. She even states that sending a pic using a hobby phone is safest. Really? So attaching a pic to a number that's used for an illegal activity is safe? What sort of logic is this? She also claims that guys send pics and IDs for screening. Are some guys really this dumb? Do you ladies really ask for pics and IDs to screen? She then later says that she's only seen one guy with my description and he's a regular and she knows his name. Hmm I'm sure she said at the beginning that she's seen a few guys with my description which is why she doesn't know who I am.*

However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from.

She asked him who he was and stated she didn't recognize the number... At that moment he should have told her his old number & that this was his new number..

But he didn't do that because he stated this ...

Instead I give her my name and description.*

So she has every right to accuse him of lying because if you have nothing to hide providing your old number shouldn't be an issue...

So with that being said I still stand by my opinion all of this could have been avoided by giving his old number but no he didn't want to...


You obviously have issues & your not helping your situation & it shows

^^^^ ohhhh... So, why didn't you just give her your old number?

^^^^ ohhhh... So, why didn't you just give her your old number? Originally Posted by Camille Fox

Heh

^^^ under Dorthy again, nice.

I have never given references. Use P411 with ECCIE. Never had an issue.

I contacted Kendal this morning. I let her know that I've seen her before and I'm thinking about seeing her again but I needed to ask her a question. She answered it. Conversation should have been over. Quick and simple. However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from. I don't give her my handle because she didn't screen when I saw her so she wouldn't know it anyways. Instead I give her my name and description. She says that she's seen a few guys with that description and asks me for a picture. I tell her that I'm not going to send a pic from my hobby number. She then calls me an idiot because I wouldn't send her a pic. She even states that sending a pic using a hobby phone is safest. Really? So attaching a pic to a number that's used for an illegal activity is safe? What sort of logic is this? She also claims that guys send pics and IDs for screening. Are some guys really this dumb? Do you ladies really ask for pics and IDs to screen? She then later says that she's only seen one guy with my description and he's a regular and she knows his name. Hmm I'm sure she said at the beginning that she's seen a few guys with my description which is why she doesn't know who I am.*

However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from.

She asked him who he was and stated she didn't recognize the number... At that moment he should have told her his old number & that this was his new number..

But he didn't do that because he stated this ...

Instead I give her my name and description.*

So she has every right to accuse him of lying because if you have nothing to hide providing your old number shouldn't be an issue...

So with that being said I still stand by my opinion all of this could have been avoided by giving his old number but no he didn't want to...


You obviously have issues & your not helping your situation & it shows Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

She shoots, she scores!! ...and the crowd goes wild!!

Every ladythas there own screening. ...just guys who want face pic of the lady's when they don't show there face in there showcase or other forms of adds ...

...I am sorry ...will not show my face in showcase or other forms of adds for my safety and for my private life when to my children live ....for example. .I don't want run in to some body at my child school ...

This not a free show when comes to request pictures from a lady ...this paid service to you .

.......I am sorry ...any questions about my service over the phone ....I will not see you ...at all...
My safety comes first. .
I don't to criminal myself over the phone ...at all .


All have to say ...my name and what will be a good time to see you ...


Sreaning start the min you make talk or text a lady in this business. ..

If you a guy who is under 18 years old ...we do have the right to ask for your I'd to play with a lady ...