I'm not exactly sure what forum I should post something like this on and I am still so baffled by the entire situation.
Yesterday on Valentines day (of all days) I had to have a very hard talk with someone very dear to my heart. A hobbyist on this website came across my pictures and was showing them to a friend who had recognized me as my real name and they pulled up my facebook account. In my life outside of the hobby world- I am very well known. I was a cheerleader in highschool so naturally I got special treatment- I'll admit it. I have a lot of friends and maintain a high volume social life. I do occasional modeling for some small swim suit brands, car shows, and events as well. Even though I prefer to spend most of my days and nights at home by myself I still make time for my friends and family because they are very dear to my heart. A lot of people know ABOUT ME but they do not know me personally and I think that is why I found all of this extremely embarrassing and honestly vindictive.
Long story short. A hobbyist on here created a face facebook account and messaged someone dear to me saying "just wanted to let you know she is a prostitute on the side" sending them screenshots of my personal website adrianamarshall.com, screen shots of my reviews, and of my pictures. I have a very good idea on who it was. My context clues tells me it was obviously someone young- an older gentlemen doesnt have the time in his day or want to deal with the drama that would come out of that.
I had got it sorted out with a very long talk and lots of tears. it was a rough thing to go through and I do not wish that upon anyone (provider or hobbyist). I would hope that any potential client of mine knows that I would never jeopardize their marriage, career, or reputation by blasting them.
I don't understand why this hobbyist thinks its okay to basically blackmail me but he himself is active in this hobby and sees providers just like me! Shit, he was going to see ME! Until he realized who I really was in real life.
I value myself and MY BODY enough to put a prize tag on it saying that I am worth hundreds of dollars (and trust me I AM, look at my amazing reviews!!) then to sell myself short with a cheap dinner and a couple cocktails and have sex just because a man spent 40$ on me. I am a young woman, I am 100% independent, I'm in school full time, trying to make a name for myself and live the life I've always wanted. And I will achieve every single one of my dreams.
My website, and my showcase now are going to be under COMPLETE CONSTRUCTION and until I can meet with my photographer I might not even have any pictures up for a little while.
ladies: be careful who you see.
and as for the hobbyist who tried to ruin my life and blow my cover: I'm Adriana Marshall you son of a bit*h and I'm not going ANYWHERE. And the relationship with a dear loved one close to my heart- completely understands and we are still close as can be. She is my best friend, and always will be.
okay- rant over. excuse my french. hope everyone has a good day. Originally Posted by Adriana Marshall
+1. Nicely said. Why put your face & tattoos on a hoe board and expect nothing to happen. Discretion is a must for me
Also when your ads have facial pictures or if you have distinctive tattoos like the ones on the back of your thighs, at some point you will be recognized by a real world relationship, especially if you are from the general vicinity of where you are providing. Originally Posted by Golden Man