you need to be prepared!

  • grean
  • 02-22-2016, 11:15 AM
You should be happy they're asking you before doing it, I usually ask for forgiveness after the fact. Originally Posted by biglatinmale

Easier to ask forgiveness than permission!
I understand you have the reviews to research but what's wrong with just updating your showcase with your do's and don't, to avoid the endless text, ijs.
Fair enough...

I'm someone who enthusiastically enjoys engaging in experiences beyond vanilla GFE. In the language that I thoughtfully and intentionally use to describe what I offer in ads, ISO and coed responses, plus my pictures, plus reviews, I do honestly think if a potential client is thorough, he'd be able to use his imagination as to what sharing time with me will be like. And be pleased with me actualizing many of his fantasies and catering to his "girlfriend" or "porn star" needs.

My patience is tried at times by two types of fishing inquiries. The first being questions that are clearly a reach. For example "will you shave your *insert hairy body part*?" The second type of bothersome inquiry is one where someone asks me something when they can piece together clues from elsewhere. For example "do you do greek?" or "do you do watersports?"

It's especially strange when these questions are sent in one or two line PMs without even a proper and courteous greeting, or more importantly, information for screening...

...Guess I'm the 1% because I like my sessions a little kinky and if I'm seeing somebody new I ALWAYS ask about certain services after I'm screened...ALWAYS. Originally Posted by L.A.
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Fair enough...

I'm someone who enthusiastically enjoys engaging in experiences beyond vanilla GFE. In the language that I thoughtfully and intentionally use to describe what I offer in ads, ISO and coed responses, plus my pictures, plus reviews, I do honestly think if a potential client is thorough, he'd be able to use his imagination as to what sharing time with me will be like. And be pleased with me actualizing many of his fantasies and catering to his "girlfriend" or "porn star" needs.

My patience is tried at times by two types of fishing inquiries. The first being questions that are clearly a reach. For example "will you shave your *insert hairy body part*?" The second type of bothersome inquiry is one where someone asks me something, when they can piece together clues from elsewhere. For example "do you do greek?" or "do you do watersports?"

It's especially strange when these questions are sent in one or two line PMs without even a proper and courteous greeting, or more importantly, information for screening... Originally Posted by Lena Duvall
Great reply and especially helpful when you explain it from the lady's point of view. Just an email asking if you like guys doing this or that without any other salutation would be irritating.
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And not everyone on here can read the entire review if they don't have premium access. I normally read the most recent reviews of a lady before I go see her. If there is something I want that isn't spelled out in those first few reviews, I ask upfront and not wait until we are knee deep in nekkidness....
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I'll just cut through all the drama and make this simple suggestion.

Please post your DO's & DON'Ts....Your MENU & RATES
Doing that may save yourself the hassle of dealing with certain people.

Some (ME INCLUDED) don't read the reviews initially...

I'll read them AFTER I've gone over your showcase.

As of right now...Your showcase doesn't have a MENU nor RATES listed.

It's BLAND like lousy potato salad...LOL

Thank you....lol
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As a newbie looking thru show cases for potential providers I am interested in this is an ender, its all about marketing is it not? I don't have time to blast thru reviews hunting for basic info like that, so it's a no go when there's no info. Having said that, its your show....just a new guys POV.
Darling would you do me the kindness of providing a "rusty trombone?"(Not in your reviews)
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I get TIRED of people not reading the reviews and add for services. If the information about a session is in plain site, why keep texting me over and over about what I offer and dont offer? That's annoying! This is going to cause me to start doing heavy screening and having everyone book through my personal website! Originally Posted by MCMXXX
Complain all you want, but providers bring this on themselves with their tendency to be ymmv with their clients. You should be glad guys are clear upfront about their expectations.


I have reviews available that's all you need Originally Posted by MCMXXX
Great attitude. Perhaps that is the response you should get from prospective clients when you start doing your "heavy screening".
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Just politely say "no i dont offer that service" and move on. There's no need to get rude about it.
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+1 and you've been on my list for a while.. Maybe a good year or so since I've seen you on backpage... However directing us to your reviews lacks tcb in all honesty.. To be frank your reviews are a bit hit or miss by few hobbyist who's judgement I trust.. I'd suggest you update your showcase thats what it's there for...




I'll just cut through all the drama and make this simple suggestion.

Please post your DO's & DON'Ts....Your MENU & RATES
Doing that may save yourself the hassle of dealing with certain people.

Some (ME INCLUDED) don't read the reviews initially...

I'll read them AFTER I've gone over your showcase.

As of right now...Your showcase doesn't have a MENU nor RATES listed.

It's BLAND like lousy potato salad...LOL

Thank you....lol Originally Posted by JimiHendrix
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Oh yeah...One more thing...

I had you on my TDL..I wanted to SMASH your little butt.

You were next but with this attitude display...
I've realigned, reassessed and removed you from the list...

On to better attitudes...

Hobby Safely....

That is all
Business 101 teaches us when advertising (your) company's "widget" for public consumption, one must provide the targeted market with as much clear and thorough information pertaining to the product (or service in this case).

Number One Edict: be in control of your business and it's advertising campaign. Relying on others to advertise your widget for you has the potential of being a recipe for disaster.

Eliminate as much potential confusion prior to the actual sale.....that way your new customer / client can make an informed decision. Hopefully, if all qualifications are satisfied in advance, a purchase for said widget will be the result.
Wow you have six reviews and already gps
Funny you say to look at reviews for activities but then post that you ask for people not to post reviews makes perfect sense
So can I expect bareback from you? All you can see are activities listed nothing in the review yet expect to know what is the the reviews without seeing them???
That's odd
Sounds like someone has premium access to know what in reviews

1 out of 6 reviews might be the op herself
My money is on clss
You have 6 reviews 2 from him
He has 5 reviews two are on you?
His name makes no sense just as yours
Things that make you go hmmmmmm.....