You should be happy they're asking you before doing it, I usually ask for forgiveness after the fact. Originally Posted by biglatinmale
Easier to ask forgiveness than permission!
...Guess I'm the 1% because I like my sessions a little kinky and if I'm seeing somebody new I ALWAYS ask about certain services after I'm screened...ALWAYS. Originally Posted by L.A.
Fair enough...Great reply and especially helpful when you explain it from the lady's point of view. Just an email asking if you like guys doing this or that without any other salutation would be irritating.
I'm someone who enthusiastically enjoys engaging in experiences beyond vanilla GFE. In the language that I thoughtfully and intentionally use to describe what I offer in ads, ISO and coed responses, plus my pictures, plus reviews, I do honestly think if a potential client is thorough, he'd be able to use his imagination as to what sharing time with me will be like. And be pleased with me actualizing many of his fantasies and catering to his "girlfriend" or "porn star" needs.
My patience is tried at times by two types of fishing inquiries. The first being questions that are clearly a reach. For example "will you shave your *insert hairy body part*?" The second type of bothersome inquiry is one where someone asks me something, when they can piece together clues from elsewhere. For example "do you do greek?" or "do you do watersports?"
It's especially strange when these questions are sent in one or two line PMs without even a proper and courteous greeting, or more importantly, information for screening... Originally Posted by Lena Duvall
I get TIRED of people not reading the reviews and add for services. If the information about a session is in plain site, why keep texting me over and over about what I offer and dont offer? That's annoying! This is going to cause me to start doing heavy screening and having everyone book through my personal website! Originally Posted by MCMXXXComplain all you want, but providers bring this on themselves with their tendency to be ymmv with their clients. You should be glad guys are clear upfront about their expectations.
I have reviews available that's all you need Originally Posted by MCMXXXGreat attitude. Perhaps that is the response you should get from prospective clients when you start doing your "heavy screening".
I'll just cut through all the drama and make this simple suggestion.
Please post your DO's & DON'Ts....Your MENU & RATES
Doing that may save yourself the hassle of dealing with certain people.
Some (ME INCLUDED) don't read the reviews initially...
I'll read them AFTER I've gone over your showcase.
As of right now...Your showcase doesn't have a MENU nor RATES listed.
It's BLAND like lousy potato salad...LOL
Thank you....lol Originally Posted by JimiHendrix