^^^^^ why do you have to keep searching?Well I saw 2 ladies as a newbie when I tried to use them as refs they were unhappy. I have a provided that will ref for me now but it can be 3 months or more between my visits and most providers want more recent refs.
Doesn't matter how long someone has been in hobby, if you've seen 2-3 ladies, the majority of ladies will see you. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
Well I saw 2 ladies as a newbie when I tried to use them as refs they were unhappy. I have a provided that will ref for me now but it can be 3 months or more between my visits and most providers want more recent refs. Originally Posted by Duthgar1976If they are professional, then they understand this is a business and wouldn't be "unhappy". And while every lady has different standards, "recent" generally means within the last 6mo - 12mo. Unless you're seeing bp ladies (who few ladies accept as a reference) or young girls who don't know how to run their business, I think y'all are making this way harder than it is. Maybe the issue is the type of lady you're seeing. Just my 2cents
If they are professional, then they understand this is a business and wouldn't be "unhappy". And while every lady has different standards, "recent" generally means within the last 6mo - 12mo. Unless you're seeing bp ladies (who few ladies accept as a reference) or young girls who don't know how to run their business, I think y'all are making this way harder than it is. Maybe the issue is the type of lady you're seeing. Just my 2centsI guess I have just had bad luck then. Plus I avoid BP like the plaque. Yes I looked it over before joining eccie but never saw anyone. Was too scared it would be a cop or just someone waiting to rob me.
I refer gents all the time to Miss Honey Rose and Selena51 (both are drama free on here) or I refer them to the thread from 2013. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
If they are professional, then they understand this is a business and wouldn't be "unhappy". And while every lady has different standards, "recent" generally means within the last 6mo - 12mo. Unless you're seeing bp ladies (who few ladies accept as a reference) or young girls who don't know how to run their business, I think y'all are making this way harder than it is. Maybe the issue is the type of lady you're seeing. Just my 2centsThese are solid points. It's just useful IMO for it to be in one place and quick.
I refer gents all the time to Miss Honey Rose and Selena51 (both are drama free on here) or I refer them to the thread from 2013. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn