Newbie Friendly List?

Duthgar1976's Avatar
Well then me bump
Azzbakwerdz's Avatar
Yep, this would be great, search sux for this! Looking thru ISO can be time consuming, personally just dont have that much time. Don't get me wrong, its interesting to see who and what pops up, but still, a list would be awesome!
Laura Lynn's Avatar
^^^^^ why do you have to keep searching?

Doesn't matter how long someone has been in hobby, if you've seen 2-3 ladies, the majority of ladies will see you.
Duthgar1976's Avatar
^^^^^ why do you have to keep searching?

Doesn't matter how long someone has been in hobby, if you've seen 2-3 ladies, the majority of ladies will see you. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
Well I saw 2 ladies as a newbie when I tried to use them as refs they were unhappy. I have a provided that will ref for me now but it can be 3 months or more between my visits and most providers want more recent refs.

I have been here for over a year and still have to usually see newbie friendly providers.

I am a disabled Navy veteran that lives on a fixed income. I love the hobby but can't do it as much as I want.
Nina the Dicknapper's Avatar
Newbie Friendly but require a review to be your reference
Laura Lynn's Avatar
Well I saw 2 ladies as a newbie when I tried to use them as refs they were unhappy. I have a provided that will ref for me now but it can be 3 months or more between my visits and most providers want more recent refs. Originally Posted by Duthgar1976
If they are professional, then they understand this is a business and wouldn't be "unhappy". And while every lady has different standards, "recent" generally means within the last 6mo - 12mo. Unless you're seeing bp ladies (who few ladies accept as a reference) or young girls who don't know how to run their business, I think y'all are making this way harder than it is. Maybe the issue is the type of lady you're seeing. Just my 2cents

I refer gents all the time to Miss Honey Rose and Selena51 (both are drama free on here) or I refer them to the thread from 2013.
Duthgar1976's Avatar
If they are professional, then they understand this is a business and wouldn't be "unhappy". And while every lady has different standards, "recent" generally means within the last 6mo - 12mo. Unless you're seeing bp ladies (who few ladies accept as a reference) or young girls who don't know how to run their business, I think y'all are making this way harder than it is. Maybe the issue is the type of lady you're seeing. Just my 2cents

I refer gents all the time to Miss Honey Rose and Selena51 (both are drama free on here) or I refer them to the thread from 2013. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
I guess I have just had bad luck then. Plus I avoid BP like the plaque. Yes I looked it over before joining eccie but never saw anyone. Was too scared it would be a cop or just someone waiting to rob me.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
I'm newbie friendly. And also, rather creative with finding ways for us to feel comfortable getting together (i.e. alternative screening).

Sincerely,
Elisabeth
dedicated's Avatar
If they are professional, then they understand this is a business and wouldn't be "unhappy". And while every lady has different standards, "recent" generally means within the last 6mo - 12mo. Unless you're seeing bp ladies (who few ladies accept as a reference) or young girls who don't know how to run their business, I think y'all are making this way harder than it is. Maybe the issue is the type of lady you're seeing. Just my 2cents

I refer gents all the time to Miss Honey Rose and Selena51 (both are drama free on here) or I refer them to the thread from 2013. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
These are solid points. It's just useful IMO for it to be in one place and quick.
Selena51 was my first she is great with newbies
AlexisMoore's Avatar
Im "newbie friendly" with screening. I was in Houston also and I am on that list too. I have an incall in Richardson. So you can add me
dedicated's Avatar
Im "newbie friendly" with screening. I was in Houston also and I am on that list too. I have an incall in Richardson. So you can add me Originally Posted by AlexisMoore
Could you describe your screening for future reference love?
It's seems like there is a real demand for having the ability to advertise that a provider is newbie friendly along with a real need to make that search easier for the hobbiest. Could the folks at ECCIE add a field on their search site to provide a solution to this issue. I imagine it would go a long way to delight their customers and providers alike.
  • fryec
  • 02-24-2016, 08:46 PM
HEB area: Newbie friendly with GENTLE screening.

REFERENCE friendly. If our visit goes well, I'll provide a reference for up to 6 months. Originally Posted by alaine
That's good to know. However a lot of ladies request recent references, as in 2 months or newer.

Peace
A list, like in the Houston request and iso, would be great.