SPIDER HOLE

can you get the person that has been telling you about it recommend you and vouch for you? Originally Posted by Justin Heranus

Well it sounds pretty hanious and disrectful towards us women so, can I provide the info,'of course. However,'I grew up in a world where respect
Mattered, bottom rung To the top. There was no secret chat room
Or whatever the fuck the spider hole is; I'm still digging. I grew up in a family, group,
Society where respect meant something . Believe it or not, respect used to mean something . When you're told as a woman, by someone who actually shows you respect that such a thing exists, well it's rather disturbing . Why is it we can't see it? Or even the ROS? I'll tell you why , that's where the bullshit happens, the lies, which ultimately lead to threats . I hate to speak on behalf of the other women here , but when our children , our personal lives are threatened, well that's when we have a problem. We couldn't be happier to see most of you come and go. It's a relief. But there's a handful of men who have addressed in the men's lounge. How do I know ? Because I'm the one who knocks. You have so many good providers on here. Why fuck that up? Why disrespect, then have the nerve to complain our call back time sucks? Guess what it does for SOME of you. Treat us with respect or lose us; simple.

Well it sounds pretty hanious and disrectful towards us women so, can I provide the info,'of course. However,'I grew up in a world where respect
Mattered, bottom rung To the top. There was no secret chat room
Or whatever the fuck the spider hole is; I'm still digging. I grew up in a family, group,
Society where respect meant something . Believe it or not, respect used to mean something . When you're told as a woman, by someone who actually shows you respect that such a thing exists, well it's rather disturbing . Why is it we can't see it? Or even the ROS? I'll tell you why , that's where the bullshit happens, the lies, which ultimately lead to threats . I hate to speak on behalf of the other women here , but when our children , our personal lives are threatened, well that's when we have a problem. We couldn't be happier to see most of you come and go. It's a relief. But there's a handful of men who have addressed in the men's lounge. How do I know ? Because I'm the one who knocks. You have so many good providers on here. Why fuck that up? Why disrespect, then have the nerve to complain our call back time sucks? Guess what it does for SOME of you. Treat us with respect or lose us; simple. Originally Posted by Sayhitoyourmom

Very well said Sadie, it the place they can hide without worry of retribution.

Damn... I said spider whole and I was banned... thats stuffs supper secret from what I heard.. Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

It's secret for a reason. Because of lack of respect . But it's not a secret. At All. So maybe I'll get "banned". Let's see how that works out.

"Never bring piss to a shit fight."

For sure. Reminds me of another group; the name
Escapes me... Originally Posted by Sayhitoyourmom

begins with a g ends with a c maybe..

I like this girl

I don't know what the spider hole is, cant find it on my page.

I thought it was just a bar....

lol

looks like there is/was at least one woman there

Let me introduce myself to you. My name is sofia and I am one of the moderators of the Spider Hole.

"What is the Spider Hole" you may ask.

The Spider Hole is the wild west of ECCIE. The Spider Hole was created by St. Christopher to give us all a place to go vent without repercussions. It is a place to get honest feedback, half of which you will not like. The other half, you may not understand.

Providers, it is a place to go meet the shakers and movers in a city you may want to visit.

Hobbyists, it is a place to go interact with fellow hobbyists who live out on the edge.

You will be offended. You will be amused. But, mostly you will be shaking your head.

If you are interested, simply post in this thread that you want to play in the Spider Hole.

One of the Moderators (there are 2 of us) will look back at your posting history and determine whether you are a cat or the mouse, and send you a PM accordingly.



Originally Posted by sofiaofhouston

begins with a g ends with a c maybe..

I like this girl

I don't know what the spider hole is, cant find it on my page. Originally Posted by bjwstw

I can't think of any words that start with a g and end with a c??

id say pm

sofia

and ask her if she gives a flyin fuck?

I can't think of any words that start with a g and end with a c?? Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

group name

I can't think of any words that start with a g and end with a c?? Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

garlic

It's secret for a reason. Because of lack of respect . But it's not a secret. At All. So maybe I'll get "banned". Let's see how that works out. Originally Posted by Sayhitoyourmom

to be honest i have yet to see you say or do anything that would be ban worthy. this is an on going debate that has been going on for years. ladies want free access to all areas but when asked if the powder room should be open, well they say no. it always comes to the excuse that the ladies need a private place to communicate about the johns. in both open and private you will have respect and disrespect. that is going to be typical for anything. some guys get the false sense of security when in the private areas but the ones who have been around and know better knows what it is all about. then there are ones who just don't care. just like anywhere you have your good and bad.

as far as your statement about loosing ladies. the typical cycle is you loose one and you have 4 to 5 taking her place. it has been that way for years. i lost count of how many i have seen come and go here. to me personally i could care less who comes and goes. out of the 87 provider showcases in upset ny there are only two i would see. those two i have known for years and know well. the rest i will never see. i prefer my utr's.

i understand what you are saying and in many points would agree, but it will fall on deaf ears. i wish you the best on the boards and hope it works out for you. some guys are going to hate me for saying this but screen your ass off and it will save you a lot of headaches later and the time you ease up on it one will slip through. also develop a selective thick skin. some will push your buttons just for the fun of it. take care and have a good one.

im allergic to garlic...... fuck would that be considered a medical thing in the guide line?

I can't think of any words that start with a g and end with a c?? Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

That would be an acronym; that's what busti meant; acronym ; she just doesn't care about wasting her time referencing things people wouldn't understand anyway; ie; acronym, pseudonym, similie, metaphor, etc. she's probably too busy actually fielding emails.