NCNS, What's Your take on handling it??

is your policy firm Originally Posted by jojodancer15

Yes! We're all adults here

One thing about reviews and blasts, it holds you accountable for your actions. Girls that provide mediocre service and guys that book appointments and don't show, can't pull it off without suffering the consequences.

Just remember, this is a hooker board and you can't believe everything you read.
Some bitches are BSC, fucktards have agendas...
Use your head and make informed decisions.

In over 20 years in the hobby and I have not had one NCNS. I guess some of it is luck, and most of it is properly screening the ladies I wish to see.

Because they must provide a taint pic before confirmation? Now I know the secret to never getting a NCNS in twenty years. Once they send the taint, a courtesy call seems like such a small gesture.

Used the back-up plan today. Made an appointment with Summer Rayne for a nooner ............. Originally Posted by Oralist

As much as I think she is hot Oralist...... Look who you tried booking with.... She has a well known history for this.


........IJS

I never set up a back up plan because I think that is rude to the back up person to use them in that way !! I have NEVER been stood up by my 8 favorites on Preferred and that's probably where we should focus our conversation on...who are the ones you can always count on ?
Soda, Ruby and Angela N are rock solid for me. The problem we all create for
Ourselves is when a pretty newbie comes along and we stray and get burned !

I never set up a back up plan because I think that is rude to the back up person to use them in that way !! I have NEVER been stood up by my 8 favorites on Preferred and that's probably where we should focus our conversation on...who are the ones you can always count on ?
Soda, Ruby and Angela N are rock solid for me. The problem we all create for
Ourselves is when a pretty newbie comes along and we stray and get burned ! Originally Posted by michaelrayab

Dude. I called the Agency AFTER I was no showed, not before!

My opinion...there is no excuse for it.

Barring loss of life or limb, there is no reason why a quick text can't be sent saying that life happens and there is a need to reschedule. Leaving someone to sit in a hotel room or in a parked car in a parking lot somewhere waiting on you when you have no intention of keeping the appointment is just shitty.

I look at it the same way as if I were on the way to a doctors appointment, dentist, attorney, job interview, etc...maybe meeting friends for dinner or even a date. It's common courtesy to inform the other party that you will not be able to show up. Period.

Leaving someone to hang just because you DGAF...makes you an asshole and you deserve to be blasted for it.

My opinion...there is no excuse for it.

Barring loss of life or limb, there is no reason why a quick text can't be sent saying that life happens and there is a need to reschedule. Leaving someone to sit in a hotel room or in a parked car in a parking lot somewhere waiting on you when you have no intention of keeping the appointment is just shitty.

I look at it the same way as if I were on the way to a doctors appointment, dentist, attorney, job interview, etc...maybe meeting friends for dinner or even a date. It's common courtesy to inform the other party that you will not be able to show up. Period.

Leaving someone to hang just because you DGAF...makes you an asshole and you deserve to be blasted for it. Originally Posted by john353

this, On both sides. If you can't make it, just tell the person your not coming, do need to give a reason, "Sorry, somethings come up, can;t come."

at least the other side knows.

You get no called no show, you can say something about it, i find those threads to be an entertaining read but make sure you are in the right. Cause i have seen guys blast girls and vice versa, only for it to blow up in their face.

My opinion...there is no excuse for it.

Barring loss of life or limb, there is no reason why a quick text can't be sent saying that life happens and there is a need to reschedule. Leaving someone to sit in a hotel room or in a parked car in a parking lot somewhere waiting on you when you have no intention of keeping the appointment is just shitty.

I look at it the same way as if I were on the way to a doctors appointment, dentist, attorney, job interview, etc...maybe meeting friends for dinner or even a date. It's common courtesy to inform the other party that you will not be able to show up. Period.

Leaving someone to hang just because you DGAF...makes you an asshole and you deserve to be blasted for it. Originally Posted by john353

+1000

Shit happens to us all, I think provider's lives are particularly difficult.
AN apology is mandatory then a second chance is warranted IJS

2x NCNS is very tough to take though

Go home, jack off... Of hire a willing partner.

Move on to another provider. Makeup sessions usually never work out for the best from my own point of view. If you really have a bad case of blue balls, you could always see agency or spa talent. But I think it's best to wait until you see another independent. Tell her your story and she might make it worth your while.

Totally Not Appropriate
I Give Them The Benefit Of Doubt & 24 Hours, After 24HRS If Still No Response, Or A BS Response, They Can Go To Hobby Hell

( There's A Special Place In Hobby Hell For Such Nonsense )

I Have Never, Will Never NCNS That's Just Selfish & Rude On All Accounts

In over 20 years in the hobby and I have not had one NCNS. I guess some of it is luck, and most of it is properly screening the ladies I wish to see. Originally Posted by pyramider

Most people who get ncns usually bring it upon themselves for not doing research or they are just a pure tard who obviously can't follow directions... But mainly its because they don't do there research or they do there research but still take a chance & get fucked over..