youth vs maturity

As the saying goes, "it's not what you have, but how you use it" that counts.

Certainly not a rule, but in general a mature lady is more likely to have knowledge and comfort that comes with having lived long enough. There certainly are exceptions both ways.

Oh, only for myself, but I need an intelligent person. Reading some post links reminded me. I should hate to admit it, but I have no idea what alternating between upper case and lower case is for. Whatever the reason, my suspicion is we most likely would not be a good match.

To me

Maturity knows what they want and they don't play games

Age gravity does prefer the young

25-60 as long as there is something I find attractive (sorry, but that's hard to quantify). I like a two-way conversationalist with someone of depth. Somone who dresses sexy, but not slutty. Someone who makes me believe they are glad to see me. And, someone who gets that I invested considerable time/effort to arrange to meet, and do not appreciate NCNS or lame last minute excuses.

I've met some wonderful ladies here (Gabrielle, Anita, Chloe) and hope to soon meet more. I've had my share of one-time experiences where the chemistry wasn't right and some disappointments where I've just had to move on.

Also, for me, the build up and anticipation are kind of a free benefit and I'm already looking forward to my next visit with a new lady.

To me

Age gravity does prefer the young Originally Posted by df011960

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

For me, its not about a number...its about an attitude and how one carries themselves, both clients and providers. Yes, some will prefer one over another, but I think those who think that way...have yet to grow up. Just my humble opinion.

I'll take an older, mature provider every time over a young woman. They generally have more in common with me, are more gentle in their thoughts and words, more honest and trustworthy in my home, and have learned more pleasurable techniques over time to compensate for the fleeting advantages of youth.

Ilsa was the perfect example of a mature woman who knew how to use her looks, personality, dress and skills to make a man feel welcome and special.

JH, couldnt agree with you more.. Ilsa was a standard to which i set my expectations. I soon learned that she wasnt' a standard, but rather an exception...

there are more that are the exception to the rule...

JH, couldnt agree with you more.. Ilsa was a standard to which i set my expectations. I soon learned that she wasnt' a standard, but rather an exception... Originally Posted by Docdave

there are more that are the exception to the rule... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

so very true. each man/woman will have there own exceptions. And there own set of rules as to who they see that way.