Boundaries. .

I believe many points are true....However my opinion is mainly respect. ...Possible fear for some ,but of what?.
Everyone is a little different. ...
In the hobby I think it's a mutual respect Originally Posted by LunaofHouston

Well, mutual respect without question. Boundaries exist for the safety of provider and trick alike. Especially you lot.

A provider should never do anything or see anyone she's uncomfortable with, and above all screen...screen...screen.

Well, mutual respect without question. Boundaries exist for the safety of provider and trick alike. Especially you lot.

A provider should never do anything or see anyone she's uncomfortable with, and above all screen...screen...screen.


Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Yeah Luna. You need to screen like hell before these guys show up at your door. But I can imagine that every now and then one may slip by and catch you off guard pushing your boundaries. I guess at that point you got to make a decision if being in the situation is worth it or not. From being a member on this site I have definitely learned that there are a lot of dudes out there in the hobby that have no respect for women. Some are out front with it. Some hide it. But at some point you as the provider gotta decide what you are willing to put up with. Hope you stay safe out there babe.

Surveys and fences Originally Posted by Slitlikr

"Good fences make good neighbors!"

Necessity sets boundaries, both in the Hobby and in the Real World.

Dignity and property rights; from these arise the need for boundaries.

We set boundaries for no reason...there are no boundaries except those we make for ourselves...

Yes, everyone makes their own boundaries. It's called self-preservation. You can't let every strange Tom Dick and Harry do whatever they want with you War believe everything they say ; that would make one a crash test dummy and the cemetery has examples of people who have done that and significantly shortened their life as a result .

Some things require trust, knowledge that this person has sense, and familiarity.

" A man's got to know his limitations" The wise words of Dirty Harry.

We set boundaries for no reason...there are no boundaries except those we make for ourselves... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Next time you are in DC hop the fence at 1600 and see how close you get to the front door.

Heh

R Duke