Prostate and fisting

Originally Posted by DallasRain

After a proctologists' exam, the patient was telling the patient was describing his experience to his friends. He said:
"The doctor had me pull down my pants and bend over this special table. Then he put his left hand on my left shoulder. Then he put his right hand in my ri..... THAT SON OF A BITCH!"

I saw this today from a friend. I think I about fell on the floor laughing.

heres my answer to prostate play....I am the ass whisperer!!


Hmm.To put it in guy terms, an anal orgasm feels like you are watching your favorite football team win the super bowl on the most state of the art television, eating the most delicious pizza ever created, drinking beer from a magical mug that never goes empty, pressing the button that ignites a few hundred pounds of explosives that levels an abandoned building, holding a winning power ball ticket, having Angelina Jolie and Jessica Beil massaging your feet and shoulders and realizing that the cable company is giving you free porn channels......all at the same time.
Originally Posted by DallasRain

You left out while having DR edging you while performing the prostrate and then allowing you to shoot all over her 100 plus point sexy tight ass!!

well the kinkiest chick I know in Htown is MsAthena! Originally Posted by DallasRain

I second on MS Athena she will change your outlook on orgasm. I think I need to see her again but this time I'm going to practice so I can last much longer maybe even get her to tap out and ask me to please let it go because she just can't MAKE ME CUM!! Love me some Ms Athena

Thanks Mr D baby....mm you are a great "patient"...
how bout a double w me & MsA!!wooohooo!!

Yummy....Dallas giant sweet lips and my large nipples...what man wouldn't want to feed us his sweet creamy cum.....

I had prostate cancer and have many prostate exams. I have never enjoyed a Doctors finger
up my butt. I went through proton radiation treatment at M.D. Anderson and before each of
the 52 treatments a balloon was placed in your butt and inflated with water to push your
bladder out of the way before the radiation was applied. After going through all this I do not
understand how any one could enjoy ass play.

I have done anal with a few ladies both in the hobby and TRW but it was because the lady
wanted it and not at my suggestion. But to each his own.

Their was a lady in Austin a few years ago, Mia of Westlake, who would always say to me,
"You are not getting out of here until you fuck me in the ASS". She would have her biggest
organisms while you were pounding her ass. She loved it!!!!.

I also had a lady friend, not in the hobby who liked to be fisted in her vagina. After we had
fucked and even after she had "Oed" she liked to be fisted and would get off usually 3 or 4
more times.

I'm patiently waiting for Miss DallasRain to come to the Wichita area to try her skills in the the prostate massage dept. A few ladies with little to know experience have tried but I've never been able to have a skilled person yet. Someday soon hopefully.

I had prostate cancer and have many prostate exams. I have never enjoyed a Doctors finger
up my butt. I went through proton radiation treatment at M.D. Anderson and before each of
the 52 treatments a balloon was placed in your butt and inflated with water to push your
bladder out of the way before the radiation was applied. After going through all this I do not
understand how any one could enjoy ass play.

I can address this a bit, I think, and understand your POV to a degree.

ALL Digital Rectal Exams I've had (and I'm 66) and do one each year, are not pleasant.
My doctor is a "she", and even with smaller fingers, its all business, and the goal is to go deeply enough so she can press into the prostate from the colon and feel for irregularities, size, and so on. Especially necessary in older guys with BPH.

If I'm lucky, its not painful... if not, it hurts.
One year my PSA was suddenly off the charts, she advised I see a urologist, and he advised a biopsy.

With this, a kind of flexible tube is inserted into the cleaned out rectum, and it stays in place, inflating the rectum a bit and is used for visual and instrument access.
Then with carefully applied local anesthetic, a long needle with a biopsy snipper on the end is inserted through the wall of the flexible tube, through the rectal wall, then into the prostate at which time this long needle device (about 12 inches long) then "bites" a tiny piece of prostate tissue at which time he extracts the needle biopsy tool, deposits the sample in a labeled container. Ultra sound guides the precision impalement of the gland.

He did this about 10 times, as I recall, corresponding to different sections of the gland in which he was interested.

It was really not painful, but was pretty uncomfortable. I took about an hour, and I medicated myself with a few valium before so I could relax.

I asked him while he was in mid-stick why the hell he couldn't just take me out for a drink or something... "We have to stop meeting this way," I said. Both he and his nurse had a good laugh.

And fortunately, I was cancer free.

This is the medical stuff... its no fun ever... in no way is it exciting or even pleasant.

Having said all this.... I also really like anal play... on me.

I'm going to guess that most providers that advertise "Prostate Massage" do NOT do a prostate massage, but simply penetrate the rectum and do an in an out motion with their finger or smallish toy.

To do an actual PM, she will have to press UP (if the male is on his back) after her finger passes beyond the dual sphincters, and do a small circular type motion where the prostate resides on the other side of the rectal wall.

So I've had a number of providers say they do a PM, but they really do NOT.
What they do is put their finger in your rectum and simulate intercourse.

Now this is pleasant, and I like it especially if they are gentle and get into it, while stroking me L1 or doing L2, etc.,

I do think a real PM done by a provider could be quite erotic and stimulating, but alas, this is the exception and not the rule.

Just sayin

I've only ventured with a PM with AMP and FBSM providers. I had to be an uninvited guest and ask to take a shower in their bathrooms. Guess we all do that when we go to hotels

I try to give my gents a bubblebath before we play...that makes sure they are clean & ready for kinky play!

A correct PM is a gentle and slow process, it is not violent in any way. An experienced lady that knows what she is doing and can coach you through it with instructions that tell you how to breath, what you are feeling and why, just as though she is inside your brain, is invaluable in this process. I agree, ladies that stick a finger in and wiggle it around with no real clue may think they are delivering a great one. They are not. I have met one lady that truly knew what she was dong with a PM. Sadly, she is not likely to pass this way again. But when you find a lady that knows what she's doing, you will never forget her. It does require special toys. It produced the most intense O I have ever had. And it will produce if even after you have had earlier ones and think you are spent.

The search for a gal that knows what she is doing in the PM arena is ongoing. At least one provider was listening and following my instruction at one point... Never quite got to it but we still had a fun time. Someday I'll find the proper PM gal.

The only gal who has been able to find it quickly and consistently has been my doctor of 20+ years. She has since moved and I am working with a new doctor these days. THis one is petite and fun-sized although I doubt anything beyond professional activities would occur.

On the topic of fisting....WALDT. I'm just not into it although if a provider wanted my to fist her I'd probably go with it.

As I have been a nurse for over twenty years you get both a great PM...leading to a explosive O as well as I am examing your prostate All the while your hard Cock is in my mouth.....Have had several playmates that have had prostate issues, some still enjoy the stimuli some don't. Again there is room for all to enjoy their Kinky sides...what ever they maybe

ditto....my motto is "Don't trust your prostate to any ol provider"!!!

A finger is not a dick,deeper is not better....it's like sticking your finger in a kitty....just jamming it in there aint gonna work,ya gotta hit the right spot!!


It is all about patience.practice,sensuality AND "finese"!!!