Let's sum this up short and sweet....I'm not the least bit concerned about a gent's body weight...whether you're larger or of a smaller frame.
It's the complete experience that makes great memories!
I love bigger guys, if I wanna get wild...I know they are not going to break LOL!! Also love the ones that scoop one hand behind my back and move me where they want me....makes me melt!
Since during an hour appointment it takes me 25 minutes to get in the door and to the bedroom, and 25 minutes to get from the bedroom back out the door, that leaves me 2 minutes for my fun (more than enough time for me and 8 minutes for undressing and getting dressed back up! They don't call me minute man for nothing!
This skinny guy is feeling left out.
Originally Posted by jackfengshui
Yeah... so is this in shape guy. Instead of being at the gym 6 days a week I could have just been eating donuts this whole time? Why didn't anyone tell me?
I've lost 40 pounds since a heart problem last fall ... and I have about 45 more to go. Assuming I get there, I think I still will qualify as a "big guy," but I'd hate to think I will get there only to have the providers find me "less attractive."
In my experience, and I think this gets to the heart of the initial post, in my hobbying activities the only one who was ever concerned with my weight was me. The providers ... well, I don't think the good ones can be in their business without accepting people as they are, without judgment, etc. They truly seem much more worried about hygiene than anything else (and I can't blame them for that).